When I airdry, it is always in steps. My hair stays wet/damp for about 2 days, on average.
After I wash, (with Nexxus, or NTM) and condition, I apply leave in (NTM now - used to be Humectress) then a serum (Fantasia heat protectant- the pink bottle) and smooth throught the hair. Since I have a lot of newgrowth, I still need help with the comb-through! So I spray Perm-repair setting lotion, concentrating on the roots. This really helps me comb and slick down the new growth waves.
Then, I choose my style. Almost all invove a ponytail as it's base - allowing the roots to be pulled straight and smooth. Almost all of the styles I choose will dry the outside of the hair, leaving the inside still wet.
*For example, I may choose a simple single braid. I'll wear that all day (after a morning wash), then maybe take it down in the evening.
* Then, I'll add an oil to my hair. I have had great sucess with WGO in the roots and along the shaft.
* I put my hair in a preparation style (one to get a certain result - not one that I want folks to see me in!). Like I may make four braids over my head; let it dry, and have silky waves next morning.
I consider most of my styles to be 'preparation styles'. After I style my hair a few different times through the week, the hair gets smoother and smoother as I go. Especially if I oil up and braid before going to bed.
A style that for me is no good as preparation style is the twirl-a-bun. It's a beautiful, polished style. But my hair is like it's in a huge roller, where no one paid attention to the ends. But that's okay - as long as I re-style in the evening with some oil to get the result I want for the next day.