Princess4real
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NewYorkgyrl said:I have never been the type to care what other people think. If I have ish to do I should not have to feel like I have to comb my hair down just to go outside and get what I have to do done. That is the same thing to me as women who refuse to be seen in public with sweats on or women who just can't be outside without make-up. Please....it is just the corner store, laundry mat, etc.....
And I will def not unwrap my hair if it raining if I am going from the car to the destination and back to the car and risk my hair getting messed up.
Maybe like other women said I do see many women do this in NY. I also see women with head scarfs and head wraps. And I don't think any of those women really care what anyone thinks.
Now that I am transitioning I do not wrap my hair, I pin curl it.....and YES I will go outside with my hair like that if I am running some errands or just going to the brooklyn, harlem...wherever and I know darn well I am not going to leave my families house.
And in the summer time I will sit on the veranda with rollers in my hair. I hate the dryer in the summer so air drying is best. I don't care what cars roll by. LOL
I guess what some think is unacceptable others could care less. One thing I would not do is go to a special even with it. I would most likely have a hairstyle anyway.LOL
I agreed with everything you said!
I too have an "I don't give a rats *** what other people think attitude" too! It's normal to see females in Bed-Stuy wearing their hair like that. We know it's not a hairstyle, but that's how we want to wear our hair at moment. We may have plans to go out later that evening or we just don't feel like walking around with a scarf on our head. It takes alot of self-esteem to go outside and not care how you look to anyone while you are running your errands and minding your own business.
Why does something have to wear a scarf on their head because someone doeesn't like the way someone else chooses to wear their hair
IT'S THEIRS!!!
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