I'm not even going to get into my pre-hair journey days, but in more recent months I was guilty of unrelentlessly brushing my almost 5 months post relaxed hair from root to tip, causing myself major breakage on one side of my head, from which I'm slowly recovering. I couldn't initially tell the damage I had done after relaxing. My hair always looks and feels thinner after relaxing anyway. It wasn't until about a month later that I noticed that my ends weren't as thick as they were before, and it was a few months later that I noticed a patch of NG growing that had no relaxed ends attached to it, and then I realized what I had done. Feels good to finally confess, lol. I'm not doing any major cutting to even my hair out. I'm just going to keep up with my trims and let it gradually catch up with the rest of my hair.