Random Hair Thoughts/Thinking out loud

divachyk Yes Ma'am I Do :yep: As for your other post........Girl overlook them. A lady told me I was going to go bald trying to go natural because the two (relaxed hair and natural hair) can't exist together on your head. <<<<-----This seriously happened. I asked her about new growth and she said it simply "the relaxer wearing off" :lachen: That lady was cray cray.

Please stop.
 
All the time. I had someone tell me that I couldn't use natural products on my hair. I let her talk. And talk. My friend said "why didn't you tell her how much you know about hair?" I said "because she likes to hear herself talk." Mind you, the product worked great on my hair.

lol I didn't know there was a rule about which hair products relaxed ladies could use. Like it would melt off or something lol
 
I really want to try doing finger coils on my entire head. But I so lazy :cry3:

so Honey Treatment update:

Yeahh :look: since fall semester has started and my hair is going through some sort of crisis (totally my fault), I haven't done a honey treatment in a min. But! My ends are still getting a bit lighter. It's like the subtle change that I already achieved with the honey is even more pronounced b/c of all of the sun and intense heat (Texas heat :nono:). I don't know that I like it. It looks kinda ashy/dingy. My hair is naturally very dark, so it's like I left too much conditioner or something on my ends. I'm not sure if I want to continue with the honey treats :(
 
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I don't know what I want to do with my hair this semester. I tried wearing it in chunky twists and they started to loc by day three. I want to find a quick, easy and cute protective style that's not bunning...
 
I want a tapered cut and color. I am almost at APL but I don't think I want long hair.

When I was relaxed I did the same thing; cut and color every three years. I am 3 1/2 years post big chop.

Decisions decisions.
 
I AM SO ANGRY RIGHT NOW, AN ASIAN BBS SOLD ME A BAD RELAXER AND BASICALLY SAID IT'S MY FAULT THAT MY HAIR DIDN'T COME OUT STRAIGHT. *** THEM. I AM GOING TO MAKE A POST ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED AS SOON AS I CALM DOWN. SO UPSET AND ANGRY!!!!
 
Yeah, I've been sold a bad relaxer before. Luckily it was so bad that I caught it just in time. It was no lye and the cream had separated and had something like hard flakes in it.
 
Decided that I don't want medium or long natural hair. I like my hair short. I think I look better with short hair. So after I get my hair tapered I will focus on health.
 
I brought a japanese tsuge detangling comb a few months back. Hands down the best detangling comb. I had given up on getting this weave detangled and was planning on just cutting it out. Thus comb melted thoses tangles like butter. Will come back to post a picture.
 
I brought a japanese tsuge detangling comb a few months back. Hands down the best detangling comb. I had given up on getting this weave detangled and was planning on just cutting it out. Thus comb melted thoses tangles like butter. Will come back to post a picture.

I can see the pic. Where did you buy it and is it seamless? Bun Mistress
 
D'oh! *Homer voice*

Would have been nice if I realized I was on my last jar of KCCC, before I got to the last section and finished my current jar :lol:
 
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Just watched Babilon Kay's wash day video. Her hair is so thick and has a beautiful texture and shine to it. Her vid made me excited to start detangling in the shower too. It only took her a few minutes, she lost very little hair, and she did not have to detangle afterwards!

I haven't washed my scalp for AWHILE now :perplexed: still preserving the straight look (even though I've worn it in a bun this entire week). Also feeling lazy about detangling too. At least I'm getting this low manipulation concept down....right? That makes this acceptable? :look:
 
I'm so frustrated with how long it takes to do my hair from start to finish. I detangle before I wash then I wash in braids, deep condition and rinse and my hair retangles and mats and it makes it so hard to style because parting my hair takes so much effort! Someone please help me because I'm running out of patience to be doing this every wash day. I know it can't be the products because everything I use promoted slip. The problem only comes in after rinsing out my DC. I'm still left with tangled hair.
 
I'm so frustrated with how long it takes to do my hair from start to finish. I detangle before I wash then I wash in braids, deep condition and rinse and my hair retangles and mats and it makes it so hard to style because parting my hair takes so much effort! Someone please help me because I'm running out of patience to be doing this every wash day. I know it can't be the products because everything I use promoted slip. The problem only comes in after rinsing out my DC. I'm still left with tangled hair.

Kaitlynrs91rs
Are you dc'ing in braids. I used to wash in twists. After rinsing shampoo I'll untwist a twist, apply DC while kinda finger detangling, then twist that section back up. And I'm only talking 6-8 twists. Essentially I was saving my detangling efforts throughout each process.
 
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