I voted every 8 to 10 wks. I am at wk 9 now, and I think I will relax either tomorrow or Sunday, at the tippy-top of week 10. I tried to make it to 12, but I don't think it'll happen this time...Last week when I was rollersetting my wet hair, I noticed a small clump of hair (about 5-6 broken strands, but still
) on a roller sitting on my sink that I took out to switch for another size. I almost threw up at the sight of it. I think some parts of my head can stretch to 12 weeks still, but the other parts are just ruining it for the whole head--my crown, in particular. It sucks when you have like 3 different textures on one head and you have to relax them all straight...
But I look back when I was relaxed in high school, relaxing every 5-6 weeks, never again. I don't even think a/b a relaxer until 8 weeks. In fact I have to go to the calendar in my hair binder and count it out to see where I'm at
I've noticed my hair is thicker and healthier, and once I've reached a longer length, I'll stretch regularly to 12 wks.