Yeh, try alternating sides when u wrap. That should help. Also, I don't know if this will help, but my old stylist also told me that the scarf should not be tied tightly when u wrap. She said that it could weaken the hair. I never used a scarf when I wrap and I use a low heat setting. I used a light hair spray, I think it was called Finisheen, and a smidge of lottabody. HTH