So many times I'll read that saved couples 'slipped up' once or twice before marriage and fornicated.... then they repented, prayed, may have even abstained for a while, and got married. But the point is they GOT TO SAMPLE THE GOODS. erplexed
What about the couple who have been together a long time and are waiting for marriage? But have not been intimate because of their beliefs in God's will for their lives and future marriage???
They don't get to test the waters, per se, before getting married so they don't even know if they're sexually compatible or not. Even the Christian women I know who are now married will say 'Girl, I couldn't marry that man and not know what he was working with!' erplexed Well ok...
This is really bothering me. Do these couples even exist? Or do most Christian men and women in relationships have sex prior to marriage or backslide and then 'come to God' again before marriage?
It's disheartening.
What about the couple who have been together a long time and are waiting for marriage? But have not been intimate because of their beliefs in God's will for their lives and future marriage???
They don't get to test the waters, per se, before getting married so they don't even know if they're sexually compatible or not. Even the Christian women I know who are now married will say 'Girl, I couldn't marry that man and not know what he was working with!' erplexed Well ok...
This is really bothering me. Do these couples even exist? Or do most Christian men and women in relationships have sex prior to marriage or backslide and then 'come to God' again before marriage?
It's disheartening.
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