I grew my hair to waist length using sew-ins. I would wear my hair from time to time and I would press it. I have been natural since 2008. I didn't have a waist length goal. I just wanted healthier longer hair but not I didn't know what to do with my hair so I keep getting the sew-ins because they are easy. I was surprised to find I was at waist length but what do I do now? Each time I wear my own hair I find the press just doesn't last as long and on the 3rd day I leave my house looking one way and before the day is over I look another. I don't want to use a lot of heat to keep my style and I can't find another style that I like. Any suggestions?