I am wondering though if I even need a leave-in for my hair or if water and oil are enough to keep my hair feeling nice and soft.
And I think my hair is growing. I should have taken a length start picture but I didn't. I believe my front was just touching the bridge of my nose when it was cut. Now I think it has passed that. I will take a picture tonight of the front and the sides so I can have it. This is only 17 days in, so I haven't lost too much time.
It's amazing how much you retain and how fast it appears to grow when you chop the bad breaky stuff! Even tho I had that Deva Curl mishap and had to trim, it's still obviously longer. My friends were commenting on my growth just this weekend! So congrats on your ng too!
As far as leave-ins, I always thought dryness was just how my hair is. On this site, though, I'm pretty sure you've read mixed statements. Some swear by 'em, some dont. I've stopped using them since the teas. THe few times I've tried to reintroduce a leave-in, even an expensive raved about one, my hair was dry as hay 2 days later. Tea or water and a natural butter to seal can keep me moisturized until wash day--a full week later! Even if I don't add anymore water to my hair, like this week, cuz I have a blow-out. Just oil at night and it's good to go in the morn.
The only time it really dries out now is when I use gel to define my coil for a wash n go. If I dont use gel or leave-ins, it doesn't really dry.