lnhair
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My sister and I both went natural at the same time well i fell off the band wagon a few months later but then jumped right back on My sister has been without a relaxer since Dec 2000 while i have been without one since Aug. 2001. I like to wear my hair in its natural state sometimes and sometimes i like to press it. I love wearing an afro puff or afro with those thin head bands. But sometimes it just does not come out the way i like some off the styles i've tried out on my head of natural hair and i may refuse to wear that out. My sister thinks that means i am not secure with my self or with my hair. I dont understand how she can come to this opinion because she never wears her hair out unless it is presssed or she has had a blowout done. She always comments on how nappy my hair is and how i need to press it. I think that she is insecure with her own hair and texture rather than i am.