Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
Why do folks have a problem with that?! I got into a huge argument with my cousin yesterday just cause I told her I love my hair and won’t be going back to relaxers ever. She tries to call me out and say that my hair is nappy and I am a hypocrite because I used to wear a relaxer. I have been relaxer free for two years and the reason why I don’t relax is because my hair was so damaged when I was. I am embracing the hair God gave me and I don’t care what noone thinks. Her mentality is if your hair is not soft/curly texture then you have bad hair. I told her good hair=healthy hair no matter if it is coarse or not. This girl went on a rampage and was cussing me out and what not, talking bout her blood pressure is rising and she got to go. Lol.
People are such a trip with this good hair bad hair thing, it is so darn annoying. Just cause I have accepted my hair and love it why are you going to hate on that? I think her issue is that she has not accepted her naps and she is mad that I am happy with mine. I swear folks will hate on anything, nappy hair, curly hair ,whatever the hair I guess if you love it they hate that you do. Smh
Since I have been natural a lot of the negative comments I get are from my own people which is sad. Every other race that sees me at work compliments my hair and are so fascinated with it but when you see a black sister she gives you that look or says oh why are you natural now. At first I felt uncomfortable but *** them all cause they are not doing anything for me. When my hair is long and natural I bet they will hate even more especially my cousin.
People are such a trip with this good hair bad hair thing, it is so darn annoying. Just cause I have accepted my hair and love it why are you going to hate on that? I think her issue is that she has not accepted her naps and she is mad that I am happy with mine. I swear folks will hate on anything, nappy hair, curly hair ,whatever the hair I guess if you love it they hate that you do. Smh
Since I have been natural a lot of the negative comments I get are from my own people which is sad. Every other race that sees me at work compliments my hair and are so fascinated with it but when you see a black sister she gives you that look or says oh why are you natural now. At first I felt uncomfortable but *** them all cause they are not doing anything for me. When my hair is long and natural I bet they will hate even more especially my cousin.