There’s a lady that every time we met up in a grocery store, mall, school function, she says that every time she prays for a friend she always thinks of me.erplexed Which leads her to believe we should be spiritual friends. I’ve had lunch with her several times and I enjoy her company but there is no connection that I feel to her, nothing that we really have in common. We see differently on child rearing, cheating, what a husband should be doing and other world issues.
I saw her again the other day and she goes on with the same story. So I end up planning to do something with her that I don't want to do. But I don’t want to hurt her feelings. She’s very very nice, she a minister, and she seems as though she would be a good friend. Except for the fact she’s needy, she’s always trying to make her husband jealous, her kids are bad (really awful), AND I DON’T WANT TO BE HER FRIEND.
If I tell her how I really feel that would hurt her feelings. At this time in my life I’m happy with the relationship I’ve developed (that I feel comfortable in) and I feel like I’m being forced into something. I’ve pray about it and I don’t feel like G-d is leading me into this friendship. I can’t see her adding anything to my life. She would be the type that would be constantly at my house eating up my food with her bad kids. And since I have NEVER seen her with her husband and from what she has told me they don’t spend anytime together well she seems to want someone to spend time with.
I just don’t feel right about this. She's pushing me to hard.
I saw her again the other day and she goes on with the same story. So I end up planning to do something with her that I don't want to do. But I don’t want to hurt her feelings. She’s very very nice, she a minister, and she seems as though she would be a good friend. Except for the fact she’s needy, she’s always trying to make her husband jealous, her kids are bad (really awful), AND I DON’T WANT TO BE HER FRIEND.
If I tell her how I really feel that would hurt her feelings. At this time in my life I’m happy with the relationship I’ve developed (that I feel comfortable in) and I feel like I’m being forced into something. I’ve pray about it and I don’t feel like G-d is leading me into this friendship. I can’t see her adding anything to my life. She would be the type that would be constantly at my house eating up my food with her bad kids. And since I have NEVER seen her with her husband and from what she has told me they don’t spend anytime together well she seems to want someone to spend time with.
I just don’t feel right about this. She's pushing me to hard.
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