I agree the mom should explore other resources to learn how to do her daughter's hair. Anything, but the BKT. First, she should not be trying to comb that baby's hair every morning. Pick a style that will last. Second, split up the hair time. I think Blessed Angel does it this way. I wash and condition on Fri night. Moisturize and put in big plaits. Style on Sat morning. Third, try to distract the child. We watch a movie or cartoons. My dd cries and carries on about how she gets her hair combed because she hates sitting still! If she is distracted it cuts out on the drama. Last resort, how long is the child's hair? Maybe mom can cut it to SL until they get a routine going.
Yall, I think CurleeDST is a great and helpful member. No need to come at her like she is BKTing the child's head. Even if she gave the best advice, the mom still gonna do what she wanna do. Some of yall need to simma down.