It may be hair too but I think they may just be looking for something different...and so are the white women.
I was just sitting in class today looking at all the white girls, and most of them have bsl hair or apl hair. I figured it out, a lot of black men love white women and other races because of their hair nothing else that's it. We have beautiful facial features and age beatuiful, and we also have nice bodies that they would die for, so the only thing that black women are lacking is the length and health of their hair. I get a lot of men tryin to date me now because i'm natural and they think i'm mix with something because my hair was curly, my question is why can't black women have nice hair, why do i have to be mix, iam 100% black and nothing else and proud of it.... Men are fascinated with hair and that's why they love them nothing else, point blank, but with more black women joining lhcf they will be back on our jock like they were in the past......... So why do you think they love these other races and puting them on the map, but putting us down, saying we have attitudes and we're alwasys wearing weaves?
We have to step out of our own, personal boxes when talking about this issue. Just because your friends, family members, and associates have a certain a viewpoint or demonstrate certain behaviors regarding interracial relationships doesn’t mean that everyone does.
FACT: Some black men are fixated on non-black features and hair.
FACT: Some black men date interracially because the “attitudes” of black women “drive them away”.
FACT: Some black men like women of all races and just want to find someone they are compatible with.
FACT: Some black men never considered dating interracially until they met a wonderful woman who happened to be of a non-black racial group and wound up being his "soul mate".
The truth is that different people do different things for different reasons. As long as someone isn’t generalizing (i.e. all black men do X, all white women do Y), we have to deal with the fact that people don’t have the same approach to life as we do and move on.
We have to step out of our own, personal boxes when talking about this issue. Just because your friends, family members, and associates have a certain a viewpoint or demonstrate certain behaviors regarding interracial relationships doesn’t mean that everyone does.
FACT: Some black men are fixated on non-black features and hair.
FACT: Some black men date interracially because the “attitudes” of black women “drive them away”.
FACT: Some black men like women of all races and just want to find someone they are compatible with.
FACT: Some black men never considered dating interracially until they met a wonderful woman who happened to be of a non-black racial group and wound up being his "soul mate".
The truth is that different people do different things for different reasons. As long as someone isn’t generalizing (i.e. all black men do X, all white women do Y), we have to deal with the fact that people don’t have the same approach to life as we do and move on.
Wow, that is inspiration for me! Keep it up!I bc in oct. 2005, then bc again in nov. 2006 becos i was boerd, so since nov. 2006 so a year 1/2
I dont know why I find this to be so funny.Girl....it ain't hair.
I'm sure reasons vary, depending on the man. But if a man tells you he's into a woman primarily because of her hair. He's lying, and/or he's probably gay...
That is only a small part. Things are a lot deeper than that, and many times a lot of it has to do with pain and frustration that they have dealt with from dealing with Black women I'm afraid to say.
For the most part, most black men still love black women.
Anyway, more men and women, of all races, are thinking out of the box and dating any one of the opposite sex they find attractive. And attractiveness is not just physical. There are other factors.
Hair is not everything, although we all know men love nice hair. It seemed that for the longest time, "nice hair" was women from other races and women with type 3 hair. If Hair were not such an issue we would not even have sites like this one up.
Times have changed. I think if more women concentrated on making themselves beautiful (inside and out) according to their own standards, ALL kinds of men would be attracted, including those black men that normally seem to only be attacted to white women.
It is not all about hair.
We have to step out of our own, personal boxes when talking about this issue. Just because your friends, family members, and associates have a certain a viewpoint or demonstrate certain behaviors regarding interracial relationships doesn’t mean that everyone does.
FACT: Some black men are fixated on non-black features and hair.
FACT: Some black men date interracially because the “attitudes” of black women “drive them away”.
FACT: Some black men like women of all races and just want to find someone they are compatible with.
FACT: Some black men never considered dating interracially until they met a wonderful woman who happened to be of a non-black racial group and wound up being his "soul mate".
The truth is that different people do different things for different reasons. As long as someone isn’t generalizing (i.e. all black men do X, all white women do Y), we have to deal with the fact that people don’t have the same approach to life as we do and move on.
I have never dated interracially (I would have before I was married but no one ever asked ). However, I do not think that black women date outside of their race due to features. As a matter of fact, I do not think most women (white included) date outside of their race because they are fascinated with body feature. I think most women date out of pure attraction and if they marry, for love.I was wondering does this happen the other way round?
I mean White Men with Black Women?
BUH HA HA, thats funny thank you for the throphy. I would like to except this award on behalf of all the wonderful ladies who have joined this site. I feel blessed to have found you guys. You make be believe in the unweavable.
this thread is ig'nant.
this thread is ig'nant.
ITA.I doubt that black men who love white women love them just because of their hair, but let's not pretend that men don't like long hair. Studies have shown that men in general like long hair better than short hair. I don't think that black men are the exception to the rule.
this thread is ig'nant.
unfortunately I am going to have to disagree. That has very little to do with it in most cases... and now I'm starting to get the impression that love has very little to do with it too.
Ok, it's just a lot of the time when I read what they say on sites like TBM, they just sound so scorned and angry at Black women for things that they have gone through. Some of those guys have come out and said that they have tried, but the women have done this or that or made them feel less than a man. I'm not saying that this is the fault of Black women. I think that is a cop out, but some of those men are too weak to deal with strong Black women. They feel that their manhood is tested too greatly for them to bear. Then they say things like, the non-Black or non-American woman makes them feel like a man and treats them right and bla bla. It's a cop out, I know, but when I read those sites it seems like it is the theme over and over again.
Times have changed. I think if more women concentrated on making themselves beautiful (inside and out) according to their own standards, ALL kinds of men would be attracted, including those black men that normally seem to only be attacted to white women.
It is not all about hair.
I always thought this whole black men loving white women phenomenon was exaggerated. What are the stats? I heard that about 94% of black men, marry black women.
Best post in this ignant thread. I don't agree with all the theories you stated but there are SO many more important things to worry about than why black men love white womenerplexed. I just can't be botheredThe world is going to hell in a hand bag and folks are still stuck on race. Our borders are wide open with illegals running through it, we have a corupt government (USA, UK, ETC) that commits false flag terriorism right in front of our faces (9/11, 7/7), people are being illegally searched by cops, the 1st and 2nd amendment has all but been destroyed, biological warfare (AIDS) is being commited on black & hispanic people around the world especially Africa ... and all we want to do is worry about who is checking out the Brothas. Well folks at this rate you will get your wish. Because the elites who are running this show will continue to dangle the race carrot every chance they get (Obama/Wright). While this country sinks back into slavery. Don't get me wrong I love a good heated disscusion about race as much as you guys do but, we are running out of time....November 4th (election day) is just around the corner and rumor has it that we will experience another 9/11 to usher in the newly elected dictator so that we can finaly go to war with Iran. Thereby completely bankrupting the American people. Get ready to wait in line for bread folks.
But I digress, black men date white women for different reasons. Color struck (yes), social climbing (yes), social engineering (yes), curiosity (yes), self hate (yes), hate all white folks (yes), resentment of the white man (yes), resentment of the white woman (yes), resentment of black women (yes), resentment of his black mama (yes), disapointment and disilusionment of the black female role models as he was growing up (yes), sexual experience (yes), sexual conquest (yes), racial preference (yes), attraction (yes), love (yes). You may not agree with these reasons but thank goodness we still live in a society where we can chose which category we want to be in.
Peace and HappiHairness everyone
why we're undesirable... because guess what WE'RE NOT?!
Well...when my aunt was ready to divorce her husband, they got into this huge argument where he exclaimed "I only married you a$$ because you had long hair". She grabbed some scissors then proceed to cut off all 30+ inches and handed it to him in a paper bag........her justification: " now your a$$ no longer has a reason to stay"
There are black men walking around here with short haired white girls. PLease, lets be real. Although they like long hair, short haired girls aren't somewhere sittin'. Believe you me!I doubt that black men who love white women love them just because of their hair, but let's not pretend that men don't like long hair. Studies have shown that men in general like long hair better than short hair. I don't think that black men are the exception to the rule.
Ok, it's just a lot of the time when I read what they say on sites like TBM, they just sound so scorned and angry at Black women for things that they have gone through. Some of those guys have come out and said that they have tried, but the women have done this or that or made them feel less than a man. I'm not saying that this is the fault of Black women. I think that is a cop out, but some of those men are too weak to deal with strong Black women. They feel that their manhood is tested too greatly for them to bear. Then they say things like, the non-Black or non-American woman makes them feel like a man and treats them right and bla bla. It's a cop out, I know, but when I read those sites it seems like it is the theme over and over again.