i believe a simple regimen will help with having patience. when i don't have one in place, i am all over the place! i do all kinds of crap to my hair, not so much to make it grow, but to keep it on my head. that's where i get into trouble.
so now i am going to focus on washing, roller setting, and bunning. that's it.
finding a good moisturizer is key for me as well. i really like HE Long Term Relationship, but i read they changed the formula. anyway, keeping it simple and sticking to what works is the key.
i think we should start a KIS support group. not so much to check in, but to just help talk and try to help each other eliminate a bunch of stuff and things we are doing to stunt our progress. just like Empressri stated, "we need to set it and forget it!"
enjoy your hair! i like my roller sets and i bought a bunch of accessories to bun and clip my hair up with. i just thought i could find an easy way to make it all work. my new reggie is simple, but it still takes work.