For those who wanna know what happened, I'm just gonna explain it here cause I don't feel like PMing everybody. I'd like to, but I don't have that kind of time.
I was responding to a post that was directed at me by Cami88:
But jada she didn't *threaten* to get highmaintenence fired, I don't know why people keep saying that. And even if she had, what was the point of distributing her personal info? Was the person hoping that highmaintenence woukd get mad and go to her house and and try to harm her? Just shameful, imo
Seems harmless enough, right? I answer her question by basically recopying LittleLuxe's post in her OWN WORDS of her wanting/threatening (same thing) to send her vids to Himay10nence's employer:
*Frisky*
Do you know who her sponsors are by any chance? Cause I'm wondering who's supporting the woman who's half naked in some of her videos for no reason...
Also makes me wonder if High Maintenance actually works someplace because I'd send that vid to her boss/corporation in a jiffy.
I mean it's plain as day what she said. If she knew where the woman worked she would try to sabotage her job, because HM acts like a" stereotypical negro" that disgraces the race and deserves punishment for allowing "others" to see this side of the culture.
But whiney, delusional crybaby black women like NikkiDior is okay?? Gimme HM any day of the week, PLEASE!!
I also answered the rest of her post:
And even if she had, what was the point of distributing her personal info?
My response was
"Do you really need to ask this?"
And I answered this last part of her post:
Was the person hoping that highmaintenence woukd get mad and go to her house and and try to harm her? Just shameful, imo
I basically said the "shame" was in trying to get a sista fired or in trouble at her job for hair video comments that didn't concern her. To be that pressed to get a person fired who you do NOT know all because you disagreed with her "tone" and consider her not to be a representation of a "good black" shows that the person doing the snitching has deeper issues than the "bad black" she despises so much.
I then ended the post with
BrookeLynn's very appropriate comment for the situation:
I think it's safe to say that if you say something mean it, don't bite your tongue for anyone. If you aren't ready to take the heat for your comments don't font them. Himay is apparently in a position to ride this drama to the wheels fall off but you Luxe are not. Just let it go.
A very honest and straight forward answer to what I "believed" to be a serious question. It wasn't. Cami then posted this garbage right here:
ok jada, at this point I have no choice but to believe you are being deliberately obtuse
No one *threatened* highmaytenence's job. Nor were any vids sent to her employer. I really think you are taking this waaay too seriously. It was a ONE LINE REMARK. MADE IN JEST. AND SHE HAS RETRACTED IT.
And yes, I do need to ask--what was the point in distributing her personal info? Did the culprit do it in hopes that highmaytenence would actually go to littleluxe's house to hurt her? I'm sorry, but that is a far worse offense than just abstractly wondering aloud about the state of someone's employment.
I feel like you're too busy being angry and defending yourself to be reasonable about the facts. You keep saying that highmaytenence was threatened when folks have made it clear time and time again that her job was not threatened in any way, shape, or form. And you keep defending the choice to distribute personal info AS IF going to someone's house and hurting them because they made a single comment in anger is the right thing to do.
If indeed you think that giving out personal information of a stranger who might have kids to think about or whoever else is a fair trade off for a remark made in jest, that has since been apologized for, then I think that's f*cked up, and that you are a sick individual.
I don't know why you keep emphasizing the fact that highmaytenence is a 'sista'. That means nil to me. Lets not try and pretend there is some kind of fake camraderie or kinship between us just because we all happen to be of the same race.
I was basically told that I was full of *ish and a "sick individual", because my answer didn't fit in line with what she WANTED IT TO BE. Also, the statement to send the vids to Himay10nence's job was NOT made in "jest" nor was it apologized for. The poster tried to retract and clean it up, but it doesn't matter. Everyone knows she was serious.
I'm more upset at the fact that Cami set me up with a bullcrap "question" only to ambush me with the above. I do what I always do on these boards, answer TRUTHFULLY and DIRECTLY. Unlike "some" others on here, I say "what I mean" and "mean what I say". I don't have time for these "trick" questions *ish. I'm still pissed about it, but I'm refraining from saying things that will make a ban.