I get accused of not combing my son's hair. He's a type 4 and was growing his hair out and a lot of DH's family complained about it.
When he was attending school one of them even told me if I sent him to school with his hair like that they would probably call social services on me and that I shouldn't let him be around people like that.
I comb my baby's hair (he's 10) every day but his hair does what it does and it looks fine to me.
I try to be really tolerant but I know that when it comes to the kiddies I can get quite nasty so I stay away from certain members of his family.
Thank goodness my son loves his hair and realizes that it's the other people that have a problem and not him.