LKFemme, I don't personally think that this site would influence me to be either relaxed or natural. I think its purpose is long hair.
There are examples of long relaxed and long natural hair. I have seen people go natural and go relaxed on this site. Additionally there are different reasons why people are relaxed or natural.
Personally I always wanted my natural hair because it was always longer. Other people will have social reasons, personal reasons and medical reasons.
At the end of it, provided someone makes a choice that suits them personally then it is fine.
I think so much emphasis is placed on hair texture. Some woman at the gym came and hugged me and told me how proud she was of me for being natural. I was polite to her because she was older but frankly I didn't care.
It seems there is unnecessary politics in hair choices. At the end of it, IMO, it's just hair. If you relax and change your mind, you can cut it, if you go natural and want it straight, you can relax it and every three years it will fall off and a new one will grow.