WHY WHY WHY!!! Your So Called Friends!!!!!
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Gryphyn
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I think a true friend would be happy for you, but if you guys have been friends for a long time I understand why you don't want to let her go. If you're going to keep her around, you should tell her straight up to focus on growing her own hair. Turn the negative energy back around on her.
Avin'sMom2010
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Thanks guys for all your comments and suggestions, the next time I hear a negative comment from her about my hair I'm just gonna tell her in a nice way of course that I don't appreciate her negativity and you do YOU regarding your hair and I WILL DO ME because evidently what I am doing is WORKING!! Hopefully this will end the hair convos.
chayil0427
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Girl this is so on point with me today. Last night there was an accident at my apartment and they had to turn the water off. Well I'm in a plastic cap with my conditioner on when the fire dept. pulls the plug.
So I call my "so called friend" and asked her if I could come over and rinse my hair. She seemed appauled and disgusted at the idea of me using her shower.
Even though early she'd given her dog a bath in there.
I couldn't believe it. She's a super hair hater as well. When I mention doing something to my hair she's all "is your hair long enough for blah blah blah" ... one time I showed her macherieamours hair and she was all "ooh I hate her...that's probably a weave".
So after all this...plus a ton of other things like her making me sit on plastic when I'm in her car I've decided to cut her off. My onle regret is that I didn't do it years ago.
Chayil
So I call my "so called friend" and asked her if I could come over and rinse my hair. She seemed appauled and disgusted at the idea of me using her shower.
Even though early she'd given her dog a bath in there.I couldn't believe it. She's a super hair hater as well. When I mention doing something to my hair she's all "is your hair long enough for blah blah blah" ... one time I showed her macherieamours hair and she was all "ooh I hate her...that's probably a weave".
So after all this...plus a ton of other things like her making me sit on plastic when I'm in her car
I've decided to cut her off. My onle regret is that I didn't do it years ago.Chayil
Ummalhadiqah
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I have a similar freind. We are doing a contest to loose weight and so I mentioned that I also have some hair length goals. I told her that I would like my hair to be to the legth of where underarm is before the end of the year. She heartily guffawed and said " you should set more realistic goals".
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DSP
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These stories are making me so mad!
I want to slap all these so-called "friends" for treating such lovely women this way. These are some evil, envious harpies who don't know the meaning of the word friend. Friends are supposed to be our "chosen family" -- people who lift us up when the world wants to tear us down. These heifers are worse than any enemy since they know how to get you where it really hurts.
Every so often, it's good to prune the friendship tree of any sick or twisted branches. It helps the tree remain strong and healthy. Just sayin'...
I want to slap all these so-called "friends" for treating such lovely women this way. These are some evil, envious harpies who don't know the meaning of the word friend. Friends are supposed to be our "chosen family" -- people who lift us up when the world wants to tear us down. These heifers are worse than any enemy since they know how to get you where it really hurts. Every so often, it's good to prune the friendship tree of any sick or twisted branches. It helps the tree remain strong and healthy. Just sayin'...
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