I was going to make a thread about this but is anyone struggling with haircare being, I guess, a false god or a serious distraction from God in their lives? I recently went natural with a TWA and of course it's totally new to me as I do it all on my own. Without stylists it's all hands on deck and more mentally/physically consuming than before. On my own, I don't mind the process at all and love my hair but The Holy Spirit has been speaking to me about it and I'm realizing it's something I just cannot handle. It's not inherently sinful but the attention and focus I put on my hair takes away my attention from The Lord in a considerable way. It's been bothering me so badly and I've been fighting to not let go *red flag* but now that I'm seeing what it is truly doing to my walk with The Lord, I'm giving it over to Him completely.
I'm thinking of cutting all my hair off for now because I can't even handle not looking at it in the mirror and figuring out how to fix or figure out something. I think about it so much sometimes and spend hours researching natural hair care when I could be spending time with God.
I would put it in braids but it's too short and I even tried a KISS approach numerous times but it always snowballs into something more complicated almost immediately. In the long term, I have no clue what I will do but I know right now is not the time. I know I desire to stay natural but whatever The Holy Spirit guides me to do, it will be of utmost perfection for my life. I'm so glad nothing is off limits because our God is infinite in wisdom!
Anyway, I'm not trying to put this out there to say that everyone who puts effort and time into taking care of their hair is sacrificing their relationship with God or anything. Anything can be a false god or as a preacher put it a suitcase weighing us down in this race and sadly, mine right now is my hair.