southerncitygirl
Well-Known Member
Ummm yeah, ok.
I went natural before all these forum, yt gurus and hair blogs. I endured ppl of all races treating me like ish and caring for my transtioning and natural hair was a guessing game. I hated my hair and just rode it out cause I meant that I would never relax again and maybe there was some delayed gratification involved.
Ppl threw shade when I was relaxed and they throw now that I'm natural especially when I flat-iron and my hair isn't as short as they thought. Relaxed ppl at my job will ask me 50-11 times did I relax and look perplexed when I say not its flat-ironed and these wenches see my hair straight about every 3 months.
New naturals maybe displaying this behavior, but ppl who were natural or transtioning prior to the social media explosion don't have any phucks to give I have friends that are relaxed and natural and all of them have lovely heads of hair
I went natural before all these forum, yt gurus and hair blogs. I endured ppl of all races treating me like ish and caring for my transtioning and natural hair was a guessing game. I hated my hair and just rode it out cause I meant that I would never relax again and maybe there was some delayed gratification involved.
Ppl threw shade when I was relaxed and they throw now that I'm natural especially when I flat-iron and my hair isn't as short as they thought. Relaxed ppl at my job will ask me 50-11 times did I relax and look perplexed when I say not its flat-ironed and these wenches see my hair straight about every 3 months.
New naturals maybe displaying this behavior, but ppl who were natural or transtioning prior to the social media explosion don't have any phucks to give I have friends that are relaxed and natural and all of them have lovely heads of hair