Artemis
New Member
I really don't want to bash stylists, but some of them can be so dang selfish!!!
Either they are SHS so that you go back to them, or they want your hair to be "cut in a style" so that you are a marketing tool (regardless of your own wishes for your hair). Or they don't ask you the right questions (or any questions at all!), or they're ignorant towards real hair care, and towards preserving the integrity of the hair--just so the hair can "look" good.
I have had to fight for the credit I deserve from all the compliments on the health of my hair thus far. When I go to the salon, people say "Whoever does your hair does a good job". Little do they know I have to spend the entire 4 weeks between visits building up the strength of my hair to be able to withstand the nonchalant handling and excessive heat use (and lack of deep conditioning) at the salon. If I wasn't a religious DC-er, and then went to the salon more often, I do believe I would be bald. And this is a "healthy hair" salon ...
In addition to this, I also have to fight the stylist who is now telling me that I won't look good with long hair, and that I should just cut off 2 inches and keep my hair in a "cute bob style" So why can't we just continue to gradually trim till all the layers grow out a little longer? I just really don't get it.
I also had one stylist friend of mine tell me today that S&Ds "destroy the look of the hairstyle"...Even if I am just snipping one split end---b/c I don't get splits very often anymore. And this person also agreed that my hair won't look good long..."But if you want to wear it like that, it's your choice. If I were your stylist, I wouldn't want anyone to know that I did your hair if you wore it like that". erplexed Well, damn!
I'm just tired of fighting I'm so tired, I don't even know if I want to try to grow this stuff to APL...There's just way too much resistance going on for me.
Anyone feel me?
Either they are SHS so that you go back to them, or they want your hair to be "cut in a style" so that you are a marketing tool (regardless of your own wishes for your hair). Or they don't ask you the right questions (or any questions at all!), or they're ignorant towards real hair care, and towards preserving the integrity of the hair--just so the hair can "look" good.
I have had to fight for the credit I deserve from all the compliments on the health of my hair thus far. When I go to the salon, people say "Whoever does your hair does a good job". Little do they know I have to spend the entire 4 weeks between visits building up the strength of my hair to be able to withstand the nonchalant handling and excessive heat use (and lack of deep conditioning) at the salon. If I wasn't a religious DC-er, and then went to the salon more often, I do believe I would be bald. And this is a "healthy hair" salon ...
In addition to this, I also have to fight the stylist who is now telling me that I won't look good with long hair, and that I should just cut off 2 inches and keep my hair in a "cute bob style" So why can't we just continue to gradually trim till all the layers grow out a little longer? I just really don't get it.
I also had one stylist friend of mine tell me today that S&Ds "destroy the look of the hairstyle"...Even if I am just snipping one split end---b/c I don't get splits very often anymore. And this person also agreed that my hair won't look good long..."But if you want to wear it like that, it's your choice. If I were your stylist, I wouldn't want anyone to know that I did your hair if you wore it like that". erplexed Well, damn!
I'm just tired of fighting I'm so tired, I don't even know if I want to try to grow this stuff to APL...There's just way too much resistance going on for me.
Anyone feel me?
Last edited: