Long post warning!
I don’t have a problem combing my hair deep into a stretch. Just take it slow, use a wide tooth comb, and do one section at a time.
However, to prevent tangles from forming here what I do:
- I detangle my hair as best as I can while it's dry.
- I then section my hair and braid each section (I prefer somewhat smaller braids to 4 to 6 larger ones).
- Then I shampoo and deep condition with a slippery shampoo and conditioner (CON detangling shampoo with the green label and ORS Replenishing pack works wonders.)
- While rinsing my hair, usually I can undo my braids fairly quickly by sliding my fingers through them from the bottom up. This is best done in the shower, but sometimes I will rinse my hair in the kitchen sink.
- I never rinse the conditioner completely out of my hair (it should still feel slippery.) But, if I do, I just add a good instant conditioner with slip (I really like Aussie 3-Minute Miracle and L'Oreal Vive conditioner.)
Then, I prepare my hair for a roller set--the key to reduing combing issues!
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- While my hair is still very wet, I apply a nice, slippery leave-in moisturizer (there's tons of good brands out there) and immediately put a plastic cap over my head to keep the moisture in.
- Section by section, I detangle as necessary with a wide-tooth comb, keeping my hair wet with diluted Lottabody. I use Lottabody because it really strengthens hair and helps to detangle. I gently work my way to a finer-tooth comb.
- Now, as much manipulation as wet setting requires, I have NEVER shed more than 3, maybe 4, strands of hair after curling my entire head—and that's using a fine-tooth rattail comb to smooth my hair onto a roller. It's the oddest thing! This was even when I did a 6-month stretch.
Now, a good wet set truly helps prevent new tangles from forming because it smoothes and stretches the hair beautifully, and keeps it that way until your next wash.
Also, to prevent tangling, try using a little bit of castor oil on your new growth. This helps tremendously. Alternatively, because I really don’t wear my hair out much, I can usually get away with just S-Curl to keep my hair moisturized and tangle-free.
With these methods, I can comb my hair everyday without much worry. Now, if I am very, very deep into a stretch, I just use hairpieces so I don’t have to comb at all, but still look great.
I hope at least some of this is helpful!