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Hey LHCF,
I am asking you to please pray for some of my friends right now and even or me. Three of my friends recently entered relationships. Two of them are new to relationships. Both are Chrisitan. One is abstaining just fine, the other one recently told me that she engaged in oral ahem. She doesn't feel guilty about it and think its okay.
I know someone else who is devout who engaged in oral sex with her boyfriend. She claimed that the Biblical translations into English only meant intercourse, not oral. I'm one to think that not one hint of sexual immorality is okay. What this means specifically, I'm not sure. However, I know that based on Corinthians and various other readings, we really should keep our bodies pure for our husbands.
This does not mean that we can't repent - obviously we can. However, if at all possible just try and avoid it. My confusion here lies in her thinking it's okay to do this, and also other Christian women who think its okay.
I think intimacy is important in a relationship. I know some people don't kiss, but I definitely have (two people - former boyfriends) and cuddled, held hands, etc. But I try to keep it to a limit because I know one thing can lead to another etc....
Sigh
I am asking you to please pray for some of my friends right now and even or me. Three of my friends recently entered relationships. Two of them are new to relationships. Both are Chrisitan. One is abstaining just fine, the other one recently told me that she engaged in oral ahem. She doesn't feel guilty about it and think its okay.
I know someone else who is devout who engaged in oral sex with her boyfriend. She claimed that the Biblical translations into English only meant intercourse, not oral. I'm one to think that not one hint of sexual immorality is okay. What this means specifically, I'm not sure. However, I know that based on Corinthians and various other readings, we really should keep our bodies pure for our husbands.
This does not mean that we can't repent - obviously we can. However, if at all possible just try and avoid it. My confusion here lies in her thinking it's okay to do this, and also other Christian women who think its okay.
I think intimacy is important in a relationship. I know some people don't kiss, but I definitely have (two people - former boyfriends) and cuddled, held hands, etc. But I try to keep it to a limit because I know one thing can lead to another etc....
Sigh