Transitioning without BC'ing Support Thread

[JJamiah]

SERIOUSLY?

Oh yes, I am very surprised that it is that good! All the rave about Ginger Pumpkin and it was a no bueno for me. I have used the Fig and I like it a lot, the Sweet Almond Mint and it is okay.

BUT 613, has taken the leash and RAN RAN RAN
I am utterly amazed.

When I opened in and smelled it- I was like
I put some in my hand and was like - erplexed
I put some on my hair and was like -

I am definitely happy!

 

[JJamiah]

I am going to most likely get this braided up at the end of June; last week. I am going on vacation and want to wig it up. I don't think I want to wear my hair out in the HEat!

 

[havilland]

I really would prefer NOT to have to bc so I'm really hoping I can continue to hold on to my relaxed length, despite the texture difference. Might be wishful thinking but I made it this far. I just trimmed a few weeks ago so I don't plan on trimming again until about the 36th month...I might dust here and there in between, though. I'd like to eventually trim away the relaxed ends as my natural hair progresses and lengthens. I'm at BSL right now with both textures. My goal is to have my natural hair reach BSL...My "dream" is to hit WL natural!

personally, i think if you protect your ends and deep condition, you won't have to cut your hair. especially if you trim on a regular basis.

i will see how it goes as i progress, but i can tell you this, if i have to choose between a big chop and relaxing my hair again, i will relax again.

 

[havilland]

How are you ladies detangling 47 wks post relaxer hair? Please tell me that miracle cond/moisturizer that melts the tangles and allows the comb to slide from root to tip.

here are my tips.

1. i don't go more than 4 days without putting some conditioner in my hair. i deep condition once a week and co wash once a week, every 4 days is my limit. my roots get dry and unhappy if i go too much longer than that.

2. i oil my roots and finger comb to remove any shed hair so that i don't get mats and tangles.

3. i only comb wet, deep conditioned hair under the shower spray.

4. use a wide tooth comb. i always finger comb first and remove any tangles i feel before i run the comb through.

5. i do not use shampoo anymore unless i have buildup. the cleanser is just too harsh. i do just fine with a clarifying conditioner like Vo5.

check my LHCF blog under my profile for a post i shared on long term stretching for more tips that may be helpful.

 

[janeemat]

Thanks ladies for all of your tips. I'm going to hang around this neck of the woods for stretching tips.

 

[Lanea87]

**peeks in and looks around, and walk slowly towards the back door hoping no one seen me LOL**

 

[newbeginnings2010]

Checking in! Just finished washing my hair at 28 weeks post. I have the back in plaits with my own hair and the front (which was braided down) is loose now and I'm going to rebraid it in an hour or so once my hair air dries. I think the transition is going well so far!

 

[daviine]

Amazing how I go from wanting to cut my hair to wanting to relax it. I wish I could find the right combo of products to moisturize my hair.... Then I'll be able to focus on finding curl poppin' defining products. I'm also still mentally transitioning. I miss compliments on my hair and feeling confident about my hair...

I am clueless but still hanging in there.

 

[Leslie_C]

I rejoined this forum just to come be a part of this thread LOL

Im 4 months post and plan to transition for 15-18 months---possibly up to two years depending on how much growth I get.

I used to be an active member here, but life kind of took over a couple of years ago and haircare was the furthest thing from my mind. The results in my hair showed it too LOL. I always wanted to go natural but I didnt want to let go of the hair I worked so hard to grow out. But that decision has been made for me bc of breakage and thinning...it is especially bad on one side in the back. So that made it easier for me because there is no way I would recover without cutting.Therefore I figure here is my opportunity to finally go natural! I feel like it will be easier for me to retain length without relaxers too..my hair is so fragile...it seems I have some major setback as a result of chemicals every 2 or 3 years. I already cut my hair to neck length and will probably keep it there with minor trims from here on out. I need enough hair to put up during busy or lazy times. I dont think I could ever commit to having a real style every day (like a down style). There is always going to be that night when I was too tired to tie my hair up or when it needed to be redone and I decided to stretch it another day or two. I never was a fan of buns, but since becoming a mom 3 years ago I learned I just dont have time or energy to wear my hair down every day LOL. I do try to dress it up though. Im actually starting to really like updo's!

Right now my biggest challenge is dryness. My hair wont retain moisture for long at all. It feels great on wash day and the next day. Then by day 3 it is super dry no matter what I put on it. I usually end up cowashing by day 3 or 4 post wash to get it soft again.

Im super excited about this journey! This is the spark that has gotten me excited about haircare again!

 

[Lanea87]

Amazing how I go from wanting to cut my hair to wanting to relax it. I wish I could find the right combo of products to moisturize my hair.... Then I'll be able to focus on finding curl poppin' defining products. I'm also still mentally transitioning. I miss compliments on my hair and feeling confident about my hair...

I am clueless but still hanging in there.

daviine, I am the same way, but I am hanging on!

I rejoined this forum just to come be a part of this thread LOL

Im 4 months post and plan to transition for 15-18 months---possibly up to two years depending on how much growth I get.

I used to be an active member here, but life kind of took over a couple of years ago and haircare was the furthest thing from my mind. The results in my hair showed it too LOL. I always wanted to go natural but I didnt want to let go of the hair I worked so hard to grow out. But that decision has been made for me bc of breakage and thinning...it is especially bad on one side in the back. So that made it easier for me because there is no way I would recover without cutting.Therefore I figure here is my opportunity to finally go natural! I feel like it will be easier for me to retain length without relaxers too..my hair is so fragile...it seems I have some major setback as a result of chemicals every 2 or 3 years. I already cut my hair to neck length and will probably keep it there with minor trims from here on out. I need enough hair to put up during busy or lazy times. I dont think I could ever commit to having a real style every day (like a down style). There is always going to be that night when I was too tired to tie my hair up or when it needed to be redone and I decided to stretch it another day or two. I never was a fan of buns, but since becoming a mom 3 years ago I learned I just dont have time or energy to wear my hair down every day LOL. I do try to dress it up though. Im actually starting to really like updo's!

Right now my biggest challenge is dryness. My hair wont retain moisture for long at all. It feels great on wash day and the next day. Then by day 3 it is super dry no matter what I put on it. I usually end up cowashing by day 3 or 4 post wash to get it soft again.

Im super excited about this journey! This is the spark that has gotten me excited about haircare again!

Leslie_C, how about using some type of spray moisturizer like S-Curl, Hawaiian Silky, or something along those lines.
I am 18 weeks I believe and this is what helps me, I spray it right on my NG w/o making it soaking wet and then on the length lightly.

 

[Theresamonet]

I think I'm going to chop today. I think I've gone long enough. I'm ready to wear my hair out without having to straighten.

 

[newbeginnings2010]

Theresamonet

I think you've gone amazingly long, so if you're ready I say go for it! Don't forget to post pics! Good luck!

 

[havilland]

I think I'm going to chop today. I think I've gone long enough. I'm ready to wear my hair out without having to straighten.

congrats! make sure you post pics ! good luck

 

[newbeginnings2010]

I finished rebraiding the front of my hair! It's my second time ever braiding it! Pictures are available on my blog at this link.

Sorry I'm still having issues posting pictures to the site. I think it's my computer. It's my super old computer because my newer one broke!

 

[janeemat]

I finished rebraiding the front of my hair! It's my second time ever braiding it! Pictures are available on my blog at this link.

Sorry I'm still having issues posting pictures to the site. I think it's my computer. It's my super old computer because my newer one broke!

You did a nice job! It looks good.

 

[chrisanddonniesmommy]

I think I'm going to chop today. I think I've gone long enough. I'm ready to wear my hair out without having to straighten.

Go for it!

 

[VelvetRain]

I'm 8 weeks post relaxer. I decided last relaxer was going to be my last relaxer and I would start to transition. Normally I relax at 11 weeks but of course I', not getting a relaxer this time. I'm confused about what I should really be doing with my hair that of course is not relaxed. I can hardly get a comb through all that new growth around that time. Do I keep using the same products I use on my relaxed hair on all my new growth? I will be doing a lot of rollersets and flexi rods like normal.

I am not a braids or wigs person so those will never be options. I am scared and feel like I am entering unknown terrority because I can style my relaxed hair with no problem. I am just worried about dealing with my natural texture that is going to keep growing.

 

[havilland]

I'm 8 weeks post relaxer. I decided last relaxer was going to be my last relaxer and I would start to transition. Normally I relax at 11 weeks but of course I', not getting a relaxer this time. I'm confused about what I should really be doing with my hair that of course is not relaxed. I can hardly get a comb through all that new growth around that time. Do I keep using the same products I use on my relaxed hair on all my new growth? I will be doing a lot of rollersets and flexi rods like normal.

I am not a braids or wigs person so those will never be options. I am scared and feel like I am entering unknown terrority because I can style my relaxed hair with no problem. I am just worried about dealing with my natural texture that is going to keep growing.

i would encourage you to read this entire thread. lots of knowledge here.

try to find a hair twin and start reviewing their techniques etc. so you can see how you want to deal with your hair.

take it a day at a time. transitioning changes every month or so for most ladies. and then there are ladies who basically sail through the process without having to change techniques ever.

i also encourage you to visit natural hair posts and threads and sites. the techniques won't all apply, but you can learn alot about products and get tips that will help you. especially as your natural hair starts to take over for your relaxed hair.

 

[havilland]

I finished rebraiding the front of my hair! It's my second time ever braiding it! Pictures are available on my blog at this link.

Sorry I'm still having issues posting pictures to the site. I think it's my computer. It's my super old computer because my newer one broke!

looks good!

 

[newbeginnings2010]

Thanks ladies! I'm working on it. I'm finally starting to feel comfortable transitioning!

 

[Lanea87]

I need to go try and read these 171 pages......

 

[Caramel Hottie UK]

Just chopped off the last of my relaxed ends!!! Not sure what came over me, I did an overnight dc with qh cholesterol. My coils looked so pretty but the relaxed ends just ruined it.
I feel so free!
Sorry for the covered pics, I have 'morning face' hee hee

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[Caramel Hottie UK]

Aaaaaaarggh!!!!! Accidentally cut a non relaxed piece of hair

Eta sorry for the icky nails, it's dc

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[havilland]

Just chopped off the last of my relaxed ends!!! Not sure what came over me, I did an overnight dc with qh cholesterol. My coils looked so pretty but the relaxed ends just ruined it.
I feel so free!
Sorry for the covered pics, I have 'morning face' hee hee

Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

congrats on chopping your ends

 

[MsDee14]

Just chopped off the last of my relaxed ends!!! Not sure what came over me, I did an overnight dc with qh cholesterol. My coils looked so pretty but the relaxed ends just ruined it.
I feel so free!
Sorry for the covered pics, I have 'morning face' hee hee

Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

Congrats!!! Your hair looks great. How long did you transition for?

 

[Caramel Hottie UK]

Thank you! I've been transitioning for around two years, didn't really look after it for the first year tho.

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[naturallygoldie]

Congrats ladies

 

[chrisanddonniesmommy]

Just chopped off the last of my relaxed ends!!! Not sure what came over me, I did an overnight dc with qh cholesterol. My coils looked so pretty but the relaxed ends just ruined it.
I feel so free!
Sorry for the covered pics, I have 'morning face' hee hee

Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

Congrats! I did a mini-chop today. I randomly snipped some relaxed ends. I didn't even care. I thought my goal was to transition to three years. I don't know if I'll even get there, I'm just about done.

 

[JJamiah]

chrisanddonniesmommy I am trying for 3 years myself, I am 11 months now and guess what, I am hoping I can make it as far as you have

 

[chrisanddonniesmommy]

chrisanddonniesmommy I am trying for 3 years myself, I am 11 months now and guess what, I am hoping I can make it as far as you have

You have my blessing, If I can make it to the 2 1/2 year mark, I think I can stretch to 3. It's just so hard to stay patient!