Khaiya
Well-Known Member
I bought a steamer and started steaming bi-weekly.
I stopped using my Protein products except for the Joico K-Pak reconstructor and hydrating balm and chelating shampoo. I use the reconstructor and hydrating balm once every 2 weeks. While I use the chelating shampoo at every wash because I discovered the water here is hard.
Right now though, I have reduced the chelating shampoo to once a week.
I started using moisture only products. I now use AOWC for my DC and Elucence MB Condish as a leave-in on wet soppy hair.
I have had a struggle with getting the right moisturizer - I tried the NTM Silky touch, but my hair doesn't like it. Maybe I need to change my technique. Right now I use a mix of AOHSR with AVJ and distilled water.
I'll leave the shedding alone, because in my opinion, it's normal and i've just accepted it myself, as long as my hair isn't thinning out i'm cool. However i do notice that when my hair is on point, moisture, low mani, etc. i shed less too so maybe if you get the breakage under control, the shedding will ease up too.
Personally i think weekly chelating is a lot, i have a friend who did that and his hair went from soft and shiny to brittle, dull and splitsville! I have never seen so many splits in one head before! So that might be something to try even though you have hard water.
I dont know much about the products you mentioned, but make sure that you are DCing with a product intended for DCing, something that instructs you to leave it on for 10-15 minutes, i found that DCing with instant/cheapie conditioners was not doing it for me at all, so i had to get a real DC.
Also you need to find a good moisturizer that you can use daily or every other day, when i was relaxed my hair could not do without WN Moisturizing Mist but it did nothing for my natural hair and boy have i struggled with splits, breakage and dryness as a result! I just started using S-Curl tho and i am in hair heaven! I cant keep my hands out my hair and the breakage (and shedding) has become almost non-existent. So try and find a water based moisturizer that works for you, you mentioned the NTM but is that creamy or watery? I find the watery ones work better for me, but you can always seal your hair with the creamy one.
P.S. Sorry so long but hope something helps