Crystalicequeen123
Well-Known Member
......I absolutely detest detangling, and even more so...I hate the fact that I have to basically style it while it's wet or damp, otherwise....I'll have a huge tangled mess on my hands the next morning....
Now before anyone gets the wrong impression, let me just clarify and say that I LOVE my natural hair, and I LOVE being natural! I actually wish I had gone natural back in college!
However, one thing that I'm finding challenging or a bit of a pain (and maybe some of you fellow natural ladies can relate ) is having to take so much time to style my hair (twists, Bantu knots, etc) after I wash it!
When I was a short haired natural, my hair was so easy! I felt like my hair grew and thrived. But now that my hair is getting longer (it's past collar bone length now), I'm finding that I DREAD spending the time and energy it takes not only to wash but to also style my hair. I HATE wearing wash and go's because they look good for about a day or two, but then the tangles and the SHRINKAGE breaks my hair off.
Therefore, now I'm going weeks sometimes without washing, my hair feels dry at times, and the tangles never seen to get any better.
Idk....Maybe I'm just in a natural funk. I would LOVE to keep my hair washed and motorized, but I'm sick of two stands twists, and I wish I knew how to really do some intricate flat twist styles because I would prob keep my hair like that for 2 weeks at a time.
I'm just so busy these days, and my hair shows it.
Am I the only one who feels this way? How did you overcome this? I want to grow longer, healthier hair, but I feel like I'm at a plateau because I'm in an area that doesn't specialize in black hair....let ALONE natural hair , and I just want something quick and easy I can do in order to keep my hair stretched. (My hair grows better this way, and I retain more length and moisture when it's stretched)
Now before anyone gets the wrong impression, let me just clarify and say that I LOVE my natural hair, and I LOVE being natural! I actually wish I had gone natural back in college!
However, one thing that I'm finding challenging or a bit of a pain (and maybe some of you fellow natural ladies can relate ) is having to take so much time to style my hair (twists, Bantu knots, etc) after I wash it!
When I was a short haired natural, my hair was so easy! I felt like my hair grew and thrived. But now that my hair is getting longer (it's past collar bone length now), I'm finding that I DREAD spending the time and energy it takes not only to wash but to also style my hair. I HATE wearing wash and go's because they look good for about a day or two, but then the tangles and the SHRINKAGE breaks my hair off.
Therefore, now I'm going weeks sometimes without washing, my hair feels dry at times, and the tangles never seen to get any better.
Idk....Maybe I'm just in a natural funk. I would LOVE to keep my hair washed and motorized, but I'm sick of two stands twists, and I wish I knew how to really do some intricate flat twist styles because I would prob keep my hair like that for 2 weeks at a time.
I'm just so busy these days, and my hair shows it.
Am I the only one who feels this way? How did you overcome this? I want to grow longer, healthier hair, but I feel like I'm at a plateau because I'm in an area that doesn't specialize in black hair....let ALONE natural hair , and I just want something quick and easy I can do in order to keep my hair stretched. (My hair grows better this way, and I retain more length and moisture when it's stretched)