B3e
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There's something wrong about being so overwhelmed with the independent woman thing that you lose yourself completely. Not to say that I was doing what I do for anyone but myself, but I definitely realize that I got way too serious for my own good. Life is beautiful, we can't let anything, even ourselves keep us from enjoying it. Yea, so what if I'm not rich, a little older, ruling the world, prettier, smarter, taller, more toned...etc. etc. you know that list. Point is SO WHAT!? I look pretty damn good, I'm pretty damn smart, and I'm pretty damn fortunate and wealthy in friends/family.
I went shopping, and didn't care about how much I was spending and bought things that I had been eyeing. I ended up filling my closet with things that I needed but didn't want to believe I could afford, the simple things. (Less than $125 for 13 items...I'm a student haha that was my shopping spree) It felt wonderful!!
And so did realizing that just because I could grow my hair to BSL+ by Dec 2010 didn't mean anything if I wasn't happy. Aaaah! I took the plunge ladies, thanks for the confidence—indirectly it was your confidence and self love that got me where I am today.
I'll take texture shots this weekend before I do my yarn twists, but here is my post BC look, I went from about an inch longer than the picture in my siggy...oh so close to APL, to about 3-5 inches stretched all around.
I went shopping, and didn't care about how much I was spending and bought things that I had been eyeing. I ended up filling my closet with things that I needed but didn't want to believe I could afford, the simple things. (Less than $125 for 13 items...I'm a student haha that was my shopping spree) It felt wonderful!!
And so did realizing that just because I could grow my hair to BSL+ by Dec 2010 didn't mean anything if I wasn't happy. Aaaah! I took the plunge ladies, thanks for the confidence—indirectly it was your confidence and self love that got me where I am today.
I'll take texture shots this weekend before I do my yarn twists, but here is my post BC look, I went from about an inch longer than the picture in my siggy...oh so close to APL, to about 3-5 inches stretched all around.
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