Sharing from my heart...all that I know, dedicated to each of you.
"Singles and Romance" (Part I)
One of the most Romantic and loving things that a single woman can do is loving her man in prayer. Angels, hear me out. For this is pure 'key'. I promise to share the 'special' Romantic tips and treats for singles that I've shared with my friends and other brides and those I've personally experienced. Things that have brought big smiles and hugs in return.
But I have to give you the foundation. Otherwise, no matter what you do for Romantic fun, it won't last. Not in the way that you may want it to.
If I could tell you the mistakes I've made in relationships you'd each nod your heads and say, "Yeah, I hear you girl. I did that too." Or, "Yeah girl, that happened to me too." The years of time and money wasted, let alone the heartache.
Updated July 2007:
God gave me a second chance in life with everything...including starting over with love. And each day that I live loving this man, I have taken him before God in loving prayer since day one. Seeking God for His will in this man's life. Seeking God for His direction on what areas in his life need prayer and allowing God to use me, how so ever God pleases. And ladies, the miracles are endless.
How often have you tried or even thought that you were doing the right thing to please your man and it was a dissapointment? It didn't turn out as you hoped it would?
You did a good thing, but the timing was off. You planned a nice dinner; bought a nice gift. Even if it occurred on his birthday, an anniversary surprise or celebrating a holiday, sometimes our timing is still off on what we do to show our love to him and to please him and then it causes discontent and feelings of rejection or failure. We feel unloved; unappreciated.
The 'Key' is prayer. "God, don't let me make a move or thought without Your direction. My footsteps are ordered of you...not me, but you.
There's a worship song by Donnie McClurkin, "Speak to my Heart, Holy Spirit...." The key, allowing God to speak to our hearts about these men. For who knows them better than God does? Who can tell us more about them? Who can warn us better? Who loves them more? God leads in all.
Know this, I am not implying that you do not pray for the man in your life. I know you do. Just don't give up. Allow God to take you to a higher level in prayer for the man you love. And do not be afraid of God showing your the 'total' truth about him and even warning you. Be open to all of what God has to say to you. I'll tell you why. You never know what he needs the covering of prayer for.
In the beginning of our friendship, the early stages of prayer, I had no idea how effective my prayers were yet, I can see the importance of it; an importance that we cannot overlook or put on the shelf until later. For time and again, God has used me in prayer for this man in my life; the man who dwells within my heart...in perfect timing; proving who God is to this man. The beauty is that he is also tuned into the Spirit of God when it comes to my needs as well.
Prayer is a vital connection which keeps two as one. Love can never die with prayer as its source and foundation; neither can two who are in love. We need to pray each and everyday and welcome the Holy Spirit to override our flesh and distractions without our resistance to Him.
Men are drawn to the women who pray for them. For prayer bears fruit. God shows up each time. And this man realizes, "I have something really special in this woman, for she is always there for me when I need her...and always on cue. How does she do that?"
Ladies, there's much more to share. Just remember... in Romance, the most loving thing is Prayer. It bypasses all. And it keeps you in perfect timing and in total peace.
I'll be back tomorrow with "Singles and Romance, Part II"
"Somebody loves you...I wonder who. Somebody loves you, they really do." Ladies...married or single, this applies to each of you."
"Love Shimmie..."
"Singles and Romance" (Part I)
One of the most Romantic and loving things that a single woman can do is loving her man in prayer. Angels, hear me out. For this is pure 'key'. I promise to share the 'special' Romantic tips and treats for singles that I've shared with my friends and other brides and those I've personally experienced. Things that have brought big smiles and hugs in return.
But I have to give you the foundation. Otherwise, no matter what you do for Romantic fun, it won't last. Not in the way that you may want it to.
If I could tell you the mistakes I've made in relationships you'd each nod your heads and say, "Yeah, I hear you girl. I did that too." Or, "Yeah girl, that happened to me too." The years of time and money wasted, let alone the heartache.
Updated July 2007:
God gave me a second chance in life with everything...including starting over with love. And each day that I live loving this man, I have taken him before God in loving prayer since day one. Seeking God for His will in this man's life. Seeking God for His direction on what areas in his life need prayer and allowing God to use me, how so ever God pleases. And ladies, the miracles are endless.
How often have you tried or even thought that you were doing the right thing to please your man and it was a dissapointment? It didn't turn out as you hoped it would?
You did a good thing, but the timing was off. You planned a nice dinner; bought a nice gift. Even if it occurred on his birthday, an anniversary surprise or celebrating a holiday, sometimes our timing is still off on what we do to show our love to him and to please him and then it causes discontent and feelings of rejection or failure. We feel unloved; unappreciated.
The 'Key' is prayer. "God, don't let me make a move or thought without Your direction. My footsteps are ordered of you...not me, but you.
There's a worship song by Donnie McClurkin, "Speak to my Heart, Holy Spirit...." The key, allowing God to speak to our hearts about these men. For who knows them better than God does? Who can tell us more about them? Who can warn us better? Who loves them more? God leads in all.
Know this, I am not implying that you do not pray for the man in your life. I know you do. Just don't give up. Allow God to take you to a higher level in prayer for the man you love. And do not be afraid of God showing your the 'total' truth about him and even warning you. Be open to all of what God has to say to you. I'll tell you why. You never know what he needs the covering of prayer for.
In the beginning of our friendship, the early stages of prayer, I had no idea how effective my prayers were yet, I can see the importance of it; an importance that we cannot overlook or put on the shelf until later. For time and again, God has used me in prayer for this man in my life; the man who dwells within my heart...in perfect timing; proving who God is to this man. The beauty is that he is also tuned into the Spirit of God when it comes to my needs as well.
Prayer is a vital connection which keeps two as one. Love can never die with prayer as its source and foundation; neither can two who are in love. We need to pray each and everyday and welcome the Holy Spirit to override our flesh and distractions without our resistance to Him.
Men are drawn to the women who pray for them. For prayer bears fruit. God shows up each time. And this man realizes, "I have something really special in this woman, for she is always there for me when I need her...and always on cue. How does she do that?"
Ladies, there's much more to share. Just remember... in Romance, the most loving thing is Prayer. It bypasses all. And it keeps you in perfect timing and in total peace.
I'll be back tomorrow with "Singles and Romance, Part II"
"Somebody loves you...I wonder who. Somebody loves you, they really do." Ladies...married or single, this applies to each of you."
"Love Shimmie..."
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