PLEASE READ IF YOU WEAR SEW IN WEAVES, BRAIDS, CORNROWS, ETC!

crlsweetie912 · Sep 16, 2008

Ok, now that I have yall in here, please read if you wear any type of braid, cornrow, sew in weave styles.

YOU MUST, remove dead shed hair from your hair after you take down any of these styles!!!! That means, once you remove the braids, you must comb through well or brush to remove shed hair BEFORE you wash! Also, never clarify immediately after takedown. You are ASKING FOR TROUBLE and possibly matted hair that might have to be cut!

I had a co-worker (actually my mentor) who had a sew in for about 2 months. She took it out the other day and went straight to washing without removing the dead hair and she went from beautiful thick shoulder length to way above ear length. (think halle berry)
DON'T RISK IT!

You may now go back to your regularly scheduled programming! :grin:

Jas123 · Sep 16, 2008

that's excellent advice! thanks!

jturner7156 · Sep 16, 2008

Oh yes, I know this first hand. This is how I lost the middle of my hair. It was awful. I had a sew-in for 1.5 months. I took it out and went straight to washing. I cried that day in the shower as I tried to comb through that matted mess. It had really set me back.

KathyMay · Sep 16, 2008

Girl you are telling the TRUTH. I have learned so many times about this fact. Don't be scared just grab some S Curl spray and comb through it.

lunabelle · Sep 16, 2008

I do think this is what contributed to my hair loss and matting when i had a sew-in. Thanks!

wannabelong · Sep 16, 2008

I'm planning to take down my weave in 2 weeks. I will be sure to remove all the shed hair before washing.

Ediese · Sep 16, 2008

Thanks for posting this. This will surely help anyone that is new to the game. Years ago when I first started wearing weaves, I took a weave out after three months and washed it without detangling. It was a mess. I had to cut my full shoulder length hair into a short Halle cut.

bermudabeauty · Sep 16, 2008

I just took my braids down last week and this is what I did.

1.I put oil oil in a color applicator bottle with the pointed tip and I oiled all my braids and scalp. (Which helped me unbraid with ease and NO BREAKAGE)

2. After I took each braid out, I ran my fingers through the hair and gently seperated any buildup on my hair.
3. I then took sections of my hair and braided it tight all the way down and washed my hair in those braids (I think that is called Crown and glory method)
4. Then I put conditioner in my hair and untangled any hair as I washed the conditioner out.

This is the first time I have ever done this and boy did it make a huge difference. I had no breakage from me wrestling with tangles. I hope this method can work for you ladies as well.

LongCurlyLocks · Sep 16, 2008

Dang, I think this happened to me a while back. I did the same thing, being lazy. I wondered why my hair seemed thinner and shorter than it was BEFORE the cornrows! :nono:

I don't wear them now (can't find anyone that does them well here and the africans pull the hell out of my fine edges) but when I grow out my hair more I might wear them again every once in a while. I will remember this.....

hunnyhun921 · Sep 16, 2008

That happened to me once before. Now when I take out braids or a sew in I comb it out after I take each braid out. I then comb out with a wide tooth comb and apply conditioner. I detangle with the conditioner and then rinse and shampoo. I do a deep condition after that. I have learned my lesson!

ChocalateDiva · Sep 16, 2008

Thanks!! I have worn sew-ins in the past and I always wondered why my hair was so thin after taking them out.

november wind · Sep 16, 2008

Thanks for this. I'm planning a sew in next week and I'll keep this in mind

V0nDiva · Sep 16, 2008

This to has happened to me after I had given birth to my son. Not thinking because i didn't have them in long (2 weeks) but you know when your hormones are getting back to normal all that shedding plus the 2 weeks of normal shedding it was a nightmare that left me w/ 2 inches minus 8- 10 inches!!!
I have seen this time and time again with many woman who come to me. I tell them all the time and it's like it falls on deaf ears.

LadyPaniolo · Sep 16, 2008

I think the problem might come when you take out the cornrows and wash the hair loose. I try to NEVER wash loose hair.

My hair is always cornrowed, whether under wigs or with tracks sewn in. When I take my weave tracks out, I leave the hair cornrowed and wash and condition it. Then I spray with my mixture of Hawaiian Silky Miracle Worker, aloe vera juice, tea tree oil and water. After that I unbraid it while it is wet and easy to detangle. I comb through the section, and then rebraid. I've not had any problems from doing this. The shed hair slides out easily, without snagging or breaking any of the other hair off.

shawny86 · Sep 16, 2008

This happened to me back in feb. I had a sew-in and went to wash it and was in tears in the shower. My hair was a tangled mess and not even a whole bottle of conditioner was able to help. I called my mom in tears...that was one of the most stressful days of my life, i swear. That day was what caused me to BC. I guess it was a new beginning.

Chameleonchick · Sep 16, 2008

This is soooooo true. I remember I learned about this when I was 4 months post at the beginning of the year after my braids and man, that was horrible. I had to deep condition three times before it stopped dreading. Now I know to always comb/detangle, shampoo, rinse, deep condition, comb/detangle, rinse, leave in.

Blessed_Angel · Sep 16, 2008

Great advice!

Don't know how, but I've always known this. And I used to have a lot of shedded hair come out, but I always combed it before I washed it.

Thanks for sharing.

BTW, so when do you clarify?

KiSseS03 · Sep 16, 2008

Good advice!

I learned this the hard way after I took down my first set of braids a few years ago. I tried to "wash out the tangles" and ended up with a hot matted mess. If it wasn't for my sweet father who came in the middle of the night to help me untangle it I would have had a Halle Berry short cut for my High School graduation.

Country gal · Sep 16, 2008

I always comb or at least finget comb my hair before washing.

kriolagirl · Sep 16, 2008

PREACH!! so glad you posted this because it is absolutely key! i just took down the sew-in in my avi last night and detangling was a breeze and my shower didn't look like someone dumped hair all over the place lol. it is also so impt to oil your braids inbetween your tracks.

sidenote...i tried the pantene r&n mask last night. still on the fence but will try it again. my hair wasn't as soft as it usually is when i rinsed it out this morning (i usually use ors replenishing).

ClassicChic · Sep 16, 2008

Good thread!

Subscribing since I am getting a sew-in this weekend.

glamazon386 · Sep 16, 2008

I'm sorry but I thought that was common sense. I knew that even before coming to this board. Why would you wet tangled unmanipulated hair? Especially hair that's been braided up for months?

Aggie · Sep 16, 2008

This is a great thread, thanks for helping the newbies out OP.

HoneyDew · Sep 16, 2008

Honestly, combing out the hair before hand does not work for me. I cannot get a comb through my hair when I take my braids down and I don't even try.

I prefer to, and always have, gently washed my hair after finger combing it to untangle.

I am sure a lot of the shed hair is removed from the finger combing, but I cannot tell you how much comes out while washing it gently in the shower. I sometimes end up with a clogged shower on braid removal days!

crlsweetie912 · Sep 17, 2008

Blessed_Angel said:
Great advice!

Don't know how, but I've always known this. And I used to have a lot of shedded hair come out, but I always combed it before I washed it.

Thanks for sharing.

BTW, so when do you clarify?

I would always clarify the next wash after taking down a weave or cornrows. That way ALLL that shed hair is gone and it's not so harsh on hair that has been conditioned at least once. IMO.

crlsweetie912 · Sep 17, 2008

glamazon386 said:
I'm sorry but I thought that was common sense. I knew that even before coming to this board. Why would you wet tangled unmanipulated hair? Especially hair that's been braided up for months?

Some people don't :nono:

There have been MANY threads here, and after seeing my friend have to chop off all her hair, I thought it was prudent to at least put it out there. If it helps even one person then I think it's worth saying again.

HoneyDew said:
Honestly, combing out the hair before hand does not work for me. I cannot get a comb through my hair when I take my braids down and I don't even try.

I prefer to, and always have, gently washed my hair after finger combing it to untangle.

I am sure a lot of the shed hair is removed from the finger combing, but I cannot tell you how much comes out while washing it gently in the shower. I sometimes end up with a clogged shower on braid removal days!

Well, no matter how you do it, the point of the matter is to get as much of the shed hair out as possible. Shed hair that has sit in cornrows tangles because the cuticles have lifted and intermingled. Kind of like the beginning of the dred stage. So you HAVE to get as much out as possible. Water makes the cuticle swell (IMO) and once that happens, unless you know exactly what you are doing, you are bound for trouble.

Plus, after taking down a weave/cornrows, most people just go in rubbing and scrubbing, all the while tangling with each vigorous rub. It's just a recipe for trouble.

butterfly3582 · Sep 17, 2008

I pre poo before I take down my corn rows. I use an olive oil conditioner and slather it on my braids. It is pretty thick. Than i let it sit for about at least an hour. Sometimes i put a shower cap over it.

Than i take the braids down and detangle with the conditioner still in my hair. This helps the braids and tangles come out easier.

I have tried detangling my hair while it was dry and i get too much breakage. This process works for much better for me.

Platinum · Sep 17, 2008

Great advice! When I removed my last sew-in, I took down my cornrows and sprayed Mane&Tail detangler spray on my hair. I fingercombed my hair first then followed up with a very WIDE tooth comb. I didn't have any problems with tangles, matting or knots.

glamazon386 · Sep 17, 2008

HoneyDew said:
Honestly, combing out the hair before hand does not work for me. I cannot get a comb through my hair when I take my braids down and I don't even try.

I prefer to, and always have, gently washed my hair after finger combing it to untangle.

I am sure a lot of the shed hair is removed from the finger combing, but I cannot tell you how much comes out while washing it gently in the shower. I sometimes end up with a clogged shower on braid removal days!

You can use conditioner on dry hair. Just add a little to each section to get the comb through. I would never just go straight to washing my hair if it hadn't been free in months. You're asking for matting.

yuriko · Sep 17, 2008

It may be common sense to some but not to everyone, When i was like 16 years old or so, I took out cornrows and thought to wash and condition it first, thinking it would be easier to comb out that way, lol, I lost so much hair that day, will never do that again. But for those who have never tried it before, you would think its worth a try, it makes sense theoretically but in practice is a bad idea. Detanglers dont work so well for me after i take out braids, I have to put a lot of moisturizer and oil to get the hair to comb out

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