I have tried to stick it out there has been major changes in the leadership in the last 3 years. I thought that things would settle a bit. Unfortunately that isn't the case. I have decided to move on, it is hurtful to see something that was once thriving change so much. I know that these things happen however it doesn't change that it is hard to watch..
Thank you ladies I appreciate your responses.
I wish you the best in this. It's very hard to make a decision like this, especially for those with a faithful heart which is what you have. You've demonstrated much faithfulness by staying as long as you have.
The Lord will lead and guide you in this. Just don't leave without showing your Pastors your love. Choose to abort the feelings of frustration and anger and just forgive them and let it go and allow God to 'change' their hearts and to follow His wisdom in matters of Church affairs.
Many times Churches resort to these activities because they are only thinking of making things 'fun' for the children, not knowing what else to do. Children DO need to have some form of entertainment coming from a Church environment, otherwise they'll go to the 'world' seeking it from them.
As Christians, we have a wonderful time in the Lord, but the world has a way of luring our children's attention and leading them to think their fun is far better when it is not so.
Perhaps you can suggest and even initiate some fun activities which do not involve the world yet the children will enjoy far better. There are so many, many options out there for Chrisitans which are not leading them into sin or the corruption of their souls. I thank God for showing them to you.
And Loved One... prepare your heart to be in prayer for every single Church that you are lead to be a part of.... it's not what's 'there' but what's coming in... Pray without ceasing.
Because the enemy is on the prowl and on his game to put the leaders of God into shame.
Renounce what youj may see and just Pray