itsdiddy
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Soooo a few months ago I posted a thread about how some psycho hairdresser over processed my hair.... that alone would make some think about getting rid of the middle man....and doing their own perm right??!! Nope that wasn't enough for me. I was up and ready to go to MY hairdresser and get that perm next week.... that was until today....
My sweet, caring, wonderful, OBLIVIOUS boyfriend spent a full 5 minutes commenting on how nappy my hair was. I mean I'm almost 12 weeks post so I was fine with the nappyness. But dannnnnggggg I was not expecting that from this man. I mean not to be cocky or anything but my booo ALWAYS loves me just as I am. If I come downstairs in holey a** PJs, he'll comment on how they bring out the color in my eyes (I mean I don't do that but u see my point)
So can ya'll understand my shock when I told him I had to go because I was doing my hair and he says woooh good cuz them naps were kinda getting outta control. I was bout to do my kinky curly braid out that I used to get compliments on all the time from this man not a perm... But when I said I was about to do my hair he thought that meant perm which to him was WONDERFUL because lately (APPARENTLY) my hair been looking kinda more kinky nappy than kinky curly which is all good for u naturals but is NOT cool when u got a perm
so what do I do. I run to the pharmacy grab a perm comb some naps and start attacking. it wasn't till i got 3/4 through my head before I realized that ONE i had not based my scalp and TWO i had no neutralizing shampoo....I've never permed my hair before so I don't know what the hell was going through my head. Currently I'm DCing and hoping for the best... Please pray for me yall I'm hopeing when this shower cap come off I don't lose all my hair with it/... I'll do updates and pics tomorrow... Unlless I'm bawling
My sweet, caring, wonderful, OBLIVIOUS boyfriend spent a full 5 minutes commenting on how nappy my hair was. I mean I'm almost 12 weeks post so I was fine with the nappyness. But dannnnnggggg I was not expecting that from this man. I mean not to be cocky or anything but my booo ALWAYS loves me just as I am. If I come downstairs in holey a** PJs, he'll comment on how they bring out the color in my eyes (I mean I don't do that but u see my point)
So can ya'll understand my shock when I told him I had to go because I was doing my hair and he says woooh good cuz them naps were kinda getting outta control. I was bout to do my kinky curly braid out that I used to get compliments on all the time from this man not a perm... But when I said I was about to do my hair he thought that meant perm which to him was WONDERFUL because lately (APPARENTLY) my hair been looking kinda more kinky nappy than kinky curly which is all good for u naturals but is NOT cool when u got a perm
so what do I do. I run to the pharmacy grab a perm comb some naps and start attacking. it wasn't till i got 3/4 through my head before I realized that ONE i had not based my scalp and TWO i had no neutralizing shampoo....I've never permed my hair before so I don't know what the hell was going through my head. Currently I'm DCing and hoping for the best... Please pray for me yall I'm hopeing when this shower cap come off I don't lose all my hair with it/... I'll do updates and pics tomorrow... Unlless I'm bawling