Your pastor says: Have sex with your spouse every night

PrettyHaitian said:
Does that mean it will be okay to have sex with Aunt Flo in town, given that she is there 3-5 days a month? :look: :grin:
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I wouldn't reccommend it (so gladd I ain't had a period in months!:yay:)

You may have to "speak into the mic" during that time, however this is the best time to whip out the list of things you wanna buy that usually incur resistance!:lachen:

DH: "You want to buy WHAT?"

You: Baby....:lick:

DH: "What ever you want! Buy two! I don't care! Here, take the credit card, the bank account, the savings account, just please don't stop doing that!"

:blush::blush::blush:

:lachen::lachen::lachen:

Ima hafta start labelling my posts NSFW:look:
 
PrettyHaitian said:
Does that mean it will be okay to have sex with Aunt Flo in town, given that she is there 3-5 days a month? :look: :grin:
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Hebrews 13:4 says the marriage bed is undefiled. So it has always been a topic of debate. You and DH are to do what the TWO of you are comfortable with. And if you're uncomfortable then roll like KBragg that is if you're comfortable with that. :grin:

Look what I came across. Just trying to help you ladies out who are signing up for the challenge. :grin:

http://www.yoursacredbed.com/
 
Mocha5 said:
Hebrews 13:4 says the marriage bed is undefiled. So it has always been a topic of debate. You and DH are to do what the TWO of you are comfortable with. And if you're uncomfortable then roll like KBragg that is if you're comfortable with that. :grin:

Look what I came across. Just trying to help you ladies out who are signing up for the challenge. :grin:

http://www.yoursacredbed.com/
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Why, thank you :grin: I will sign up tonight :lick: :lachen:
 
kbragg said:
I wouldn't reccommend it (so gladd I ain't had a period in months!:yay:)

You may have to "speak into the mic" during that time, however this is the best time to whip out the list of things you wanna buy that usually incur resistance!:lachen:

DH: "You want to buy WHAT?"

You: Baby....:lick:

DH: "What ever you want! Buy two! I don't care! Here, take the credit card, the bank account, the savings account, just please don't stop doing that!"

:blush::blush::blush:


:lachen::lachen::lachen:

Ima hafta start labelling my posts NSFW:look:
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I need to start "speaking into the mic," more often :look:. I will pull out my wish list as I work though :grin:
 
Mocha5 said:
Hebrews 13:4 says the marriage bed is undefiled. So it has always been a topic of debate. You and DH are to do what the TWO of you are comfortable with. And if you're uncomfortable then roll like KBragg that is if you're comfortable with that. :grin:

Look what I came across. Just trying to help you ladies out who are signing up for the challenge. :grin:

http://www.yoursacredbed.com/
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:yep: When we were in pre-marital class, that was a hot topic. There are scriptures in Leviticus that warn against it, but our teacher said she couldn't tell us one way or the other.
 
MissScarlett said:
Wow, wish the church was closer to us so we could attend that church. :look::lachen:

Been telling ya'll that sex in marriage is awesome and it should be celebrated. Women have a hard time keeping their christian side and their sexual side balanced. We've been taught to be one or the other, good Christian women or the ones no one marries. Its tough to balance.
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Well, both my mother AND my pastor's wife have taught me and demonstrated OPENLY to celebrate sex with my husband DAILY.... I'm waiting for my husband to put all this training and teaching into practice!
 
kweenameena said:
wow! that website is a little brutal with it's reasoning.:nono: It makes me feel like I'm a disgusting creature for having my period or something.:perplexed
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That's why we have to take the meat and spit out the bones on most of the stuff we read/hear.... Arguments are presented on a particular topic, and we have to be discerning and be careful about what to take in and what to dismiss. The menstrual cycle is part of a woman's life. It is what it is....
 
kweenameena said:
wow! that website is a little brutal with it's reasoning.:nono: It makes me feel like I'm a disgusting creature for having my period or something.:perplexed
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Yeah I was scanning it at first but I don't think I want to read something thats gonna have me two steps back to God hating me or something about me. I know there are things God doesn't like but to have to think everytime I have my period it's hated and God is disgusted by me for it.

Cuz of all the things I've prayed for in my life...a period was not one of them:lachen:
 
I just read this whole thread and ya'll are so funny:lachen:

The pastor is right though....works ya'll!

How I know....:lachen::lachen::lachen:, guess?
 
lauren450 said:
for 30 days. Could you do it?:lachen:

Florida pastor challenges married couples to have sex everyday for a month

The Associated Press

updated 11:37 p.m. ET, Mon., Feb. 18, 2008

YBOR CITY, Florida - A southwest Florida church issued a challenge for its married members: Have sex every day for a month.

Relevant Church head pastor Paul Wirth issued the 30-day sex challenge to take on high divorce rates.

"And that's no different for people who attend church," Wirth said Sunday. "Sometimes life gets in the way. Our jobs get in the way."

The challenge does not extend to unwed congregants, however.

Copyright 2008 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.
URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23228308/




I see what he's trying to do, and I think it's a great idea, but I think I'd really need the Lord's help with this one.:lachen:Hmmm...that's probably another advantage to it. :yep:

PS: I hope this is appropriate to post here.
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I've never been married but that isn't what intimacy or a marriage is suppose to be all about. Marriage isn't just sex.
 
chicacanella said:
I've never been married but that isn't what intimacy or a marriage is suppose to be all about. Marriage isn't just sex.
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BUT, it is a huge part of it and shouldn't be ignored, and because there are problems from NOT having it in many marriages, lots of marriages end in divorce.

Dh and I teach marriage couples...trust me..that's one of the biggest issues in marriage!
 
I would hope that anybody who said that, whether pastor or not, was being facetious. It just seems a little extreme. :look: Having sex every day won't do any more for your relationship then having sex every other day or every two days.

Now if you're doing that as a couple because your sex drive is like that then go for it. Pastors should be careful about their advice, though, because a lot of people look at it as more then their(the pastor's) opinion and take it as the word of the Lord.:yep:
 
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Nice & Wavy said:
I just read this whole thread and ya'll are so funny:lachen:

The pastor is right though....works ya'll!

How I know....:lachen::lachen::lachen:, guess?[/quote]

Weeeelllll!! I definitely think there's something to it. It's an intimacy level that you can't share with ANYONE else on earth (or at least you're not suppose to :look:). I just don't know if I could muster up the strength, the will, or the desire to have sex for 30 days straight. :yawn:
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