ITA with Nicola - plus I think it's a lot of frustration on the part of the women (physical, emotional, and spiritual). They have been told for years that once they "get themselves together" and "accomplish what God has for you to do as a single," that they will find, er, excuse me, be found by
Mr. Perfect. So they immerse themselves in church - weekly Bible study, usher board, praise team, pay their tithes and offerings, etc., etc. Yet, they still find themselves among a sea of other single women in the congregation fighting over that one single man.
I don't know who is to blame for this, but Christian women have been hoodwinked into thinking that being active in church invokes some sort of quid pro quo with God . . . like He
has to send you a good mate since you're doing so much good work in the church. What they don't tell you is that you cannot MAKE God do anything . . . His will is His will, and His timing is His timing.