skegeesmb
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Choose to alter their hair via blowdryer, brushing frequently to achieve a strecthed out look, pressing, texturizing, or relaxing?
When we think of natural do we automatically assume a 4a/b hairtype? Is this what we characterize as "African textured hair"? What about all the mixing that has gone on which has given us an array of hairtypes that fit right down the line of the fine one of a 3bc/4a?
Is there a difference when a type 3 wants to texturize their hair compared to a type 4 that wants to texturize?
Or is it just color that makes a difference? Is it because we are black when we relax we automatically are put into the "I want more Caucasian hair" or "I hate myself" so I'm going to relax or press.
What about the women who don't have one definate hairtype that falls distinctly into the 4's? What does that mean? Does it mean they relax because they hate themselves, or because they don't have a certain type of "African textured" hair well they have that choice?
When is it okay as a black person to do anything other than "washing and going", or is it "you're black", you need to just wear your hair as it is when you wash it, let it dry like that, and show the world what you got? Do we get the chance to wear our hair other than wet without it seeming like we are hiding from being black? Is it ever okay?
Is straight hair the enemy? Is anything other than tightly coiled hair the enemy? How do you feel about those who either don't fit the tightly coiled hair, or those who refuse to wear their hair wet and out?
When we think of natural do we automatically assume a 4a/b hairtype? Is this what we characterize as "African textured hair"? What about all the mixing that has gone on which has given us an array of hairtypes that fit right down the line of the fine one of a 3bc/4a?
Is there a difference when a type 3 wants to texturize their hair compared to a type 4 that wants to texturize?
Or is it just color that makes a difference? Is it because we are black when we relax we automatically are put into the "I want more Caucasian hair" or "I hate myself" so I'm going to relax or press.
What about the women who don't have one definate hairtype that falls distinctly into the 4's? What does that mean? Does it mean they relax because they hate themselves, or because they don't have a certain type of "African textured" hair well they have that choice?
When is it okay as a black person to do anything other than "washing and going", or is it "you're black", you need to just wear your hair as it is when you wash it, let it dry like that, and show the world what you got? Do we get the chance to wear our hair other than wet without it seeming like we are hiding from being black? Is it ever okay?
Is straight hair the enemy? Is anything other than tightly coiled hair the enemy? How do you feel about those who either don't fit the tightly coiled hair, or those who refuse to wear their hair wet and out?