Alamanda22
New Member
Hi Ladies ! I need your help and knowledge !
I've been passively following the forum since 3 years but I decided to actively get on a healthy hear journey since, well...a few days
My hair is between neck length and shoulder length. It is a mix of 4A tight coils in the back, slightly loser curls in the middle and a few 4B s-patterned strands in the front.
Within the last 5 years i have been through it all: relaxed, texlaxed, texturized, natural 2 times. I figured out that I like my texlaxed/texturize look the most compared to my natural hair, for versatility and manageability reasons. Also, I prefer hair with volume and texlax/texturizing is good for that purpose compared to bone straight hair.
Wash and goes is my favorite style especially for summer, but I wear my hair in buns most of the time. I wouldn't be against a few roller sets from time to time, if I only knew how to do it properly. I also never apply direct heat to my hair.
Now here comes my hair dilemma: I don't know which relaxer to choose. I am almost 5 months post and I need to decide soon.
In my entire relaxed+ texlaxed+ texturized life, I used different relaxers.
No-lye: ors,soft and beautiful, gentle treatment, dark and lovely, just for me regular, just for me texture softener, phyto index I , phyto index II
Lye: ors, s-curl, revlon
My hair is now texlaxed with Phyto Index II (applied on natural hair) since december 2011.
I already used phyto when I was bone straight relaxed and I absolutely loved the results. My hair was really shiny and kept a lot of volume. I personally thought it was the best no-lye for my hair.
Now that I am texlaxed with it, I like the curl/wave definition it gives to my hair. But here comes the downside, my hair seems to feel dry on the long run even if i deep condition and chelate it with ORS aloe shampoo.
When i compare it to the few lye relaxers i used, my hair was retaining moisture way better with lye BUT the curls/wave where not as well defined as it is with Phyto. AND contrary to many reviews I read on the forum, my hair has less volume with a LYE and gets bone straight more easily with a lye. I also think it just break downs more easily and faster with the lye, leaving me with a "silkier" but also limper look. As a consequence, my wash and goes look fuller and more natural with the phyto but straighter looks, or even bantu knots, look better with the lye because the hair is not stiff and has more movement compared to Phyto especially now as my hair is still short and not "weighted down" by the length .
I would like to know, with all I just said:
Should I stick to Phyto and try to incorporate more quality moisturizing conditioners/ leave-in or I don't know what in my regimen to prevent dryness and keep the volume and wave definition Phyto gives me ?
or
should I switch to lye, find the right relaxer and texlaxing method that will help me to achieve the right level of wave definition and volume ? And if so, which to choose ? I may be interested in trying Linange Texturizer/Relaxer, or MBB from what I read on the forum.
I hope all I explained makes some kind of sense and sorry for that looong post ! TIA
ps: i tried to include a picture of my hair but it doesn't work, will try later
I've been passively following the forum since 3 years but I decided to actively get on a healthy hear journey since, well...a few days
My hair is between neck length and shoulder length. It is a mix of 4A tight coils in the back, slightly loser curls in the middle and a few 4B s-patterned strands in the front.
Within the last 5 years i have been through it all: relaxed, texlaxed, texturized, natural 2 times. I figured out that I like my texlaxed/texturize look the most compared to my natural hair, for versatility and manageability reasons. Also, I prefer hair with volume and texlax/texturizing is good for that purpose compared to bone straight hair.
Wash and goes is my favorite style especially for summer, but I wear my hair in buns most of the time. I wouldn't be against a few roller sets from time to time, if I only knew how to do it properly. I also never apply direct heat to my hair.
Now here comes my hair dilemma: I don't know which relaxer to choose. I am almost 5 months post and I need to decide soon.
In my entire relaxed+ texlaxed+ texturized life, I used different relaxers.
No-lye: ors,soft and beautiful, gentle treatment, dark and lovely, just for me regular, just for me texture softener, phyto index I , phyto index II
Lye: ors, s-curl, revlon
My hair is now texlaxed with Phyto Index II (applied on natural hair) since december 2011.
I already used phyto when I was bone straight relaxed and I absolutely loved the results. My hair was really shiny and kept a lot of volume. I personally thought it was the best no-lye for my hair.
Now that I am texlaxed with it, I like the curl/wave definition it gives to my hair. But here comes the downside, my hair seems to feel dry on the long run even if i deep condition and chelate it with ORS aloe shampoo.
When i compare it to the few lye relaxers i used, my hair was retaining moisture way better with lye BUT the curls/wave where not as well defined as it is with Phyto. AND contrary to many reviews I read on the forum, my hair has less volume with a LYE and gets bone straight more easily with a lye. I also think it just break downs more easily and faster with the lye, leaving me with a "silkier" but also limper look. As a consequence, my wash and goes look fuller and more natural with the phyto but straighter looks, or even bantu knots, look better with the lye because the hair is not stiff and has more movement compared to Phyto especially now as my hair is still short and not "weighted down" by the length .
I would like to know, with all I just said:
Should I stick to Phyto and try to incorporate more quality moisturizing conditioners/ leave-in or I don't know what in my regimen to prevent dryness and keep the volume and wave definition Phyto gives me ?
or
should I switch to lye, find the right relaxer and texlaxing method that will help me to achieve the right level of wave definition and volume ? And if so, which to choose ? I may be interested in trying Linange Texturizer/Relaxer, or MBB from what I read on the forum.
I hope all I explained makes some kind of sense and sorry for that looong post ! TIA
ps: i tried to include a picture of my hair but it doesn't work, will try later