The right products and tools are imoprtant and do make transitioning easier its the diffrence betwenn having manable or tangled breaking hair. I use my homemade moisturiser to keep my hair tangle free and soft its combined with Rosewater, glycerin, cocnut oil, v05 creamy peaches conditioner, and some water).
i use it daily on my haistyles usually a bun, or braids. I also spray it on before i comb my hair with my k-cutter the tangles just fall out easily without breaking the two diffrent textures. I use most of the vo5 conditioners for cw they make hair soft and moisturised this will help keep breakage to a minimal. For shampooing whjich i do rarely, i use CON Ultra moisturising it makes my hair super soft and doesn't strip.
RAW SHEA butter, is a great moisturiser, plus dark and lovely dry hair healer and their ultra cholesterol is excellent deep conditioners which softens the hair. Good luck