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Old 11-12-2013, 12:10 PM
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Default Re: Wash Day - My Sons Waist Length Hair

When I saw it, my first thought was that maybe he wore it long for religious reasons. However, after watching the video and seeing how relaxed he is. He is happy with it. Also someone asked her why is it so long in the comments and she said that he doesn't want to cut it. As long as he is happy and it is his choice then that is all that matters.

I've seen men and little boys with long hair all the time. I dated a guy who had APL hair, one that had waist length locks and one of my teachers had booty length locks. As long as the hair looks clean and maintained I see no issue.
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She needs a daughters head to play in.

His hair is nice.
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This gives moms who have boys inspiration that they too can have long hair. The schools i attended had plenty of white boys with waist length hair and they were always the ones wanted by all the girls in the school. Even now, the one or two brothers we see with hip length dreads will get a and then a .

Having to cut his hair should not be the cure for kids who's parents FAILED. The mom should report every TWA wearing little boy who looks at him twice. Ma lot of us on the board were teased about our hair in school, that's why relaxers took off in the black community.

She is proud of her baby boy, hair and all. She wins.
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This gives moms who have boys inspiration that they too can have long hair. The schools i attended had plenty of white boys with waist length hair and they were always the ones wanted by all the girls in the school. Even now, the one or two brothers we see with hip length dreads will get a and then a .

Having to cut his hair should not be the cure for kids who's parents FAILED. The mom should report every TWA wearing little boy who looks at him twice. Ma lot of us on the board were teased about our hair in school, that's why relaxers took off in the black community.

She is proud of her baby boy, hair and all. She wins.
I didn't know boys wanted to have long hair. Are you joking? I don't mind the fact that his hair is long, I mind the fact that she is flat ironing it. And I am concerned about what his father is saying. It just seems strange. He is a beautiful little boy but this is still strange. Sorry, strange is all I can come up with.

Ironically, I always said that if I have a boy he would have to be at least 5 before I cut his hair.

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Modern Samson! Love it!!!
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Old 11-12-2013, 01:29 PM
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No no no The hair is way too long for a boy and then it's flat ironed wtf is this!??

It's unsettling and she needs a daughter or maybe should become a hairdresser and play in a little girls head of turning her son into a weird barbie doll boy

Has she done a video on him wearing braid outs and roller sets yet? :-/

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Old 11-12-2013, 01:48 PM
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No....Idk what she is trying to prove growing her sons hair. There was a member here that said her son would never get a haircut. The point? I will never know.
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I’m sorry, but this is one area where I will not ride on the anti-bullying train. If a parent allows their male child to have long, effeminate hair, that’s on them.
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I was good till she flat ironed.....
Anyway gorgeous hair
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I wonder when the lad will turn to his mom and beg her to cut his hair.
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The kid looked miserable. I felt like this was all to keep mom happy, playing in his hair. There's no point in growing a boy's hair long. I knew right away she was a single mom and I don't usually go along with stuff like that but no husband would allow that.
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I've got all kinds of questions but one comment.

I wonder if she is allowing her son to grow hair that long is for her benefit...he looks like a girl.
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The kid looked miserable. I felt like this was all to keep mom happy, playing in his hair. There's no point in growing a boy's hair long. I knew right away she was a single mom and I don't usually go along with stuff like that but no husband would allow that.

ITA, should have read your post before I commented....

even though he has long hair she seems to be getting too much enjoyment from tending to his hair.

Aint no need for him to have hair that long unless he is a Nazarite, and I doubt they flat ironed.
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one more,

I wonder if his hair is naturally red/brown, or is she giving him henna treatments.
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I want his hair on my head.
I am not a fan of it on him though.
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Thank the lawd it wasn’t a special occasion because he might have gotten some type of candy/spiral curls as well.
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The kid looked miserable. I felt like this was all to keep mom happy, playing in his hair. There's no point in growing a boy's hair long. I knew right away she was a single mom and I don't usually go along with stuff like that but no husband would allow that.
I agree he does look miserable. Flat ironing is a bit much. BUT my hubby had no problem with our youngest son growing his hair out. The boy refused to get his haircut when Dad was deployed to Iraq. Dad came home and he decided to keep his hair long. Three years later it was down his back. I was so glad when he finally cut his hair the first time. LOL! When it was long I had to detangle that mess when he was little. He grew it out again in high school only to cut all off again his senior. By then he could take care of it himself.
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This gives moms who have boys inspiration that they too can have long hair. The schools i attended had plenty of white boys with waist length hair and they were always the ones wanted by all the girls in the school. Even now, the one or two brothers we see with hip length dreads will get a and then a .

Having to cut his hair should not be the cure for kids who's parents FAILED. The mom should report every TWA wearing little boy who looks at him twice. Ma lot of us on the board were teased about our hair in school, that's why relaxers took off in the black community.

She is proud of her baby boy, hair and all. She wins.
It isn't that his hair is long, it's the really strange way in which she seems to take pleasure in caring for it. It's weird.

I felt like a voyuer watching that video. And that's not a feeling one should have watching a mother care for her child's hair.

If he wants it that long, I'm OK with it. But the boy looks miserable and I get a feeling of him tolerating this situation to keep mom happy.

**Shugs** Couldn't be my boy child.
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I didn't even watch with sound on. Was she talking through the video?
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I didn't know boys wanted to have long hair. Are you joking? I don't mind the fact that his hair is long, I mind the fact that she is flat ironing it. And I am concerned about what his father is saying. It just seems strange. He is a beautiful little boy but this is still strange. Sorry, strange is all I can come up with.

Ironically, I always said that if I have a boy he would have to be at least 5 before I cut his hair.
Ypu have never seen Native American men? Latin men ? or white boys that have long hair? This is the first male you have ever seen with long hair?
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