Help me to "SEX" up my wardrobe

[Msmia]

I am working on making me over, and I have notice that even though I am buying better and more upbeat clothing, I am still missing that "sex pot" look. I want to sex up my wardrobe to make me more Video Girl and less modern teacher . I think my choices are too conservative and I am not showing enough skin or curves.

Help! If it helps I am a curvy 12/14 and carry most of my weight in my upper body, chest and tummy .

Pictures would also be helpful.

[Syrah]

I think it's possible to be uber sexy and not be showing skin. What's your goal in sexing up your warddrobe?? Video Girls attract dudes looking for video hos. Is that really the attention you want?

Dress how you want to be perceived.

I'd focus on striped sweaters and belted sweaters because they can accentuate your curves, with tailored jeans (i.e. Habitual denim). How tall are you?

[lexi08]

Originally Posted by MsNadi

I think it's possible to be uber sexy and not be showing skin. What's your goal in sexing up your warddrobe?? Video Girls attract dudes looking for video hos. Is that really the attention you want?

I'd focus on striped sweaters and belted sweaters because they can accentuate your curves, with tailored jeans (i.e. Habitual denim). How tall are you?

Co-signing you don't want to look like a video girl, do you really?

I also recommend wearing more fitted clothing items. A pair of fitted slacks/jeans and a nice cashmere sweater will get you noticed

[KEWLKAT103]

Get a nice pair of boots.
Those look sexy with just about anything.
jeans, skirts, dresses...

I'm not sure how you feel about skinny jeans, but those always make me feel sexy. Plus your covered up, but they show your curves.

[FlowerHair]

Knee-high boots, pencil skirts and figure hugging cashmere sweaters...that's sexy to me!

[Syrah]

Originally Posted by FlowerHair

Knee-high boots, pencil skirts and figure hugging cashmere sweaters...that's sexy to me!

...and it's sexy because they wonder what's underneath. I also think "peeks" of lace can be really sexy or other "sexy materials" can be really sexy. Like a cashmere sweater, some jeans and boots, but a lace camisole underneath.

You don't have to put it all out there, to get folks thinking about it.

[Msmia]

LOL

Thank you ladies so much. I am not going for the Video Ho look, more Lisa Raye than Video Vixen.

[Msmia]

Originally Posted by MsNadi

...and it's sexy because they wonder what's underneath. I also think "peeks" of lace can be really sexy or other "sexy materials" can be really sexy. Like a cashmere sweater, some jeans and boots, but a lace camisole underneath.

You don't have to put it all out there, to get folks thinking about it.

I love this. Thanks.

[Msmia]

Originally Posted by FlowerHair

Knee-high boots, pencil skirts and figure hugging cashmere sweaters...that's sexy to me!

I can already visualize this in my head. Thanks.

Originally Posted by KEWLKAT103

Get a nice pair of boots.
Those look sexy with just about anything.
jeans, skirts, dresses...

I'm not sure how you feel about skinny jeans, but those always make me feel sexy. Plus your covered up, but they show your curves.

I saw some skinny jeans on a plus size model and it changed my whole concept of them. I am now on a mission to find the right pair.

Originally Posted by MsNadi

I think it's possible to be uber sexy and not be showing skin. What's your goal in sexing up your warddrobe?? Video Girls attract dudes looking for video hos. Is that really the attention you want?

Dress how you want to be perceived.

I'd focus on striped sweaters and belted sweaters because they can accentuate your curves, with tailored jeans (i.e. Habitual denim). How tall are you?

I am 5' 3".

[SunySydeofLyfe]

Get magazines..People Style watch, Lucky, Seventeen and mimic the looks you like....you would be amazed at an idea that can be struck by looking at a picture, you might even have some of the items in your closet and the mag will help/show you alternative ways to wear it.