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Old 05-06-2008, 08:24 PM
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Default Why black men love white women?

some people on here are real stupid

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Old 05-06-2008, 08:29 PM
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

I think hair is part of of but definetly not the ONLY reason that black men seem to be flocking to non-black women.
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

I think its way deeper than hair although it could have a small impact on why they go that route.
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Old 05-06-2008, 08:39 PM
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

Girl....it ain't hair.

I'm sure reasons vary, depending on the man. But if a man tells you he's into a woman primarily because of her hair. He's lying, and/or he's probably gay...
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

I agree with you to point. I think internalized racism is more to blame. Some of us are screwed up.
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

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I was just sitting in class today looking at all the white girls, and most of them have bsl hair or apl hair. I figured it out, a lot of black men love white women and other races because of their hair nothing else that's it. We have beautiful facial features and age beatuiful, and we also have nice bodies that they would die for, so the only thing that black women are lacking is the length and health of their hair. I get a lot of men tryin to date me now because i'm natural and they think i'm mix with something because my hair was curly, my question is why can't black women have nice hair, why do i have to be mix, iam 100% black and nothing else and proud of it.... Men are fascinated with hair and that's why they love them nothing else, point blank, but with more black women joining lhcf they will be back on our jock like they were in the past......... So why do you think they love these other races and puting them on the map, but putting us down, saying we have attitudes and we're alwasys wearing weaves?
Cosigning with what the rest of these ladies have said. Its not just the hair. In the words of some of my guy friends who have dated many-a-white-women though, its also just them having different personalities. TBH, white women are just "willing." Jump, and they ask how high kinda thing. Its rare that you find a white woman with an attitude like a sista I'm NOT saying thats a bad thing though. Different strokes for different folks is all.
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Old 05-06-2008, 08:46 PM
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

Girl, this is not a new phenomena (sp?) alot of black men always wanted a white woman. It wasn't legal then. It is legal now, people don't get lynched for it anymore.

In addiction, this subject has many elements, hair could be one. However, I am sure it is not the only one.
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I think hair is part of of but definetly not the ONLY reason that black men seem to be flocking to non-black women.
yes, I know that there are a lot of other reasons, but I know hair is a concern for black men
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

I disagree because it is alot of black women who have long beautiful hair putside of LHCF, I have also seen brothers with white women who have short pixie cuts, I agree with the one who says it is more than just the hair, It is also some want to have kids so they can have that "good hair" But on the other hand you have some black women who marry men of other races so their kids don't have nappy hair.
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

I think a lot of black men are colorstruck.............. Hair my feet!!!!
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

i think its more than just hair too but if that is the only reason then they can go right ahead cause thats so superficial .. i wouldnt want that person anyway..
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

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yes, I know that there are a lot of other reasons, but I know hair is a concern for black men
I agree, hair is part of it. Earlier to day a Black man said to me, "i usually date long hair hispanic women." He found it necessary to add the "long hair" he couldn't just say "hispanic women." And men are generally very visual, they DO look at a woman's head. Lots of Black men hate weaves, etc. So yeah I think hair is part of it. But I also agree with what the other ladies said; there are plenty of other reasons some Black men prefer non-Black women.

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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

Hair is not the issue.

People are free to like whoever they want IMO - But some people are dealing with self hatred and internal racism.
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

It may be hair too but I think they may just be looking for something different...and so are the white women.
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

Wait... black men like you cuz you got "good hair" like white people? Well Ill eb damned! I bet you light skinndeded too! I guess I better load up on the weave and bleaching cream.
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it didnt take lone for that star to come
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

What? That has to be the rudest thing to say about someone, that someone is dating them b/c of their hair. How about intelligence, conversation, kindness, great companionship and those things. I mean white women are not dumb blondes and it is rude to assume or insinuate so.

They like white women for the same reason they like black women or any other women for that matter.

Would you like it if someone said "That white man with you for your hair!" Like you have nothing else to offer any body. SMDH!
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Cosigning with what the rest of these ladies have said. Its not just the hair. In the words of some of my guy friends who have dated many-a-white-women though, its also just them having different personalities. TBH, white women are just "willing." Jump, and they ask how high kinda thing. Its rare that you find a white woman with an attitude like a sista I'm NOT saying thats a bad thing though. Different strokes for different folks is all.
Yes I totally agree, they are easily influnced and we have more of a backbone
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Default Re: Why black men love white women?

I heard this before...from a black man. He was saying he dated white women because they wore their 'real' hair! Then why do I see some blak women with weave, and jacked up weave, with a black man on their arm? I didn't say they love it, hell, my SO hates that I am wearing a weave, but he didn't leave me for no white woman. People like what they like. True, my half-Filipino friend who has curly long hair, gets more attention then us, but that's what they like. I recieved numerous attention with my short cut from black men.

Go where you please, just don't put another woman down, while you're going!
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