This is my first post, but I'm on this forum all the time reading and learning.
I am considering putting a relaxer in my 7 year old's hair. I'm not trying to make it bone straight, I just want to be able to comb it with more ease. So, I would not leave the relaxer in very long. Her hair often feels dry and hard, like wool. I have used all kinds of products that have been recommended. The one that always helps me to comb through her hair is Qhemet Olive Cream Detangler. That stuff works like magic, but I feel like I need to do more for her hair. I am considering the Phyto relaxer or ORS Olive relaxer.
The problem is that I feel that because her hair is so "nappy" (for lack of a better word), I know her hair breaks when I comb it. It is really nappy at the roots. It takes me forever just to part it so that I can braid it. I literally have to "work through" her hair inch by inch when I am parting it. And when I wash her hair, that seems to be an all day process......wash, condition, detangle, comb out, braid.
I just think that if I put a relaxer in her hair for just a few minutes, her hair would be easier to comb, easier to manage, and there would not be as much breakage. My thinking is that it would actually be better for her or benefit her more than what I am doing now.
I hope this all make sense and that you get what I am trying to say. Please don't slam me for using the word "nappy". I'm just looking for your opinions about what I should do.
I am considering putting a relaxer in my 7 year old's hair. I'm not trying to make it bone straight, I just want to be able to comb it with more ease. So, I would not leave the relaxer in very long. Her hair often feels dry and hard, like wool. I have used all kinds of products that have been recommended. The one that always helps me to comb through her hair is Qhemet Olive Cream Detangler. That stuff works like magic, but I feel like I need to do more for her hair. I am considering the Phyto relaxer or ORS Olive relaxer.
The problem is that I feel that because her hair is so "nappy" (for lack of a better word), I know her hair breaks when I comb it. It is really nappy at the roots. It takes me forever just to part it so that I can braid it. I literally have to "work through" her hair inch by inch when I am parting it. And when I wash her hair, that seems to be an all day process......wash, condition, detangle, comb out, braid.
I just think that if I put a relaxer in her hair for just a few minutes, her hair would be easier to comb, easier to manage, and there would not be as much breakage. My thinking is that it would actually be better for her or benefit her more than what I am doing now.
I hope this all make sense and that you get what I am trying to say. Please don't slam me for using the word "nappy". I'm just looking for your opinions about what I should do.