I had a ball hanging out with her and a friend of mine (who is a really good friend of hers) when I lived in California, but that was 22 years ago!! AND SHE STILL LOOKS THE SAME!!!
It was an off the cuff comment...my first thought after looking at her beautiful hair. I do believe you can't control a man...and i believe you should continue to be what he fell in love with and your best. If he fell for your wit and intellect then don't ever forget that. If it was your great beauty and sense of style then don't forget that. Be you. Smiles...