I just realized my L'Oreal Balm has ceramicides in it so I can update here with the balm. Last Saturday I used the balm and afterwards my hair felt pretty soft.
Wow I had and still have many ceramide filled products. Many of the oils are still in my wish list to purchase later. I need to revisit this because I love the effect ceramides have on my hair.
I am using some sunflower and castor oil mix as an oil rinse and I'll be sealing in my leave-in/moisturizer with sunflower oil after rinsing out my deep conditioner.