Unpopular/Secret Reasons For Your Fitness Goals

[TrustMeLove]

So...... What are some or just one of your unpopular or secret reasons for your fitness goals?

Something that folks IRL don't know about and that you have kept pretty close to the vest.

Well............................

In my case one of the benefits from getting fit is I want to make this one person feel ssooooo STUPID!

Like he never really took our relationship serious enough. We are super cool actually, but it always felt like he was holding back. It's one of those complicated relationships. Y'all know the type...friends..but not friends..but really are friends...Lawd!

Anyways I want to get in super duper good shape...and have them looking stupid like WHY DIDN'T I...WHY DIDN'T I get with the program when I had a chance..:wallbash: Look but DON'T touch. :grin:

This is actually a good friend of mine so it really is a SECRET. :lachen:

This isn't my primary, secondary, nor tertiary reason for getting fit..it's like icing on the cake in the whole scheme of things. :grin:

YOUR TURN!

[JustKiya]

I think all my reasons are shallow. :lol:

a) to increase my chances of getting pregnant/having an easy labor
b) to be able to wear more/cheaper clothes
c) to be able to wear a two piece

:look: I really don't care about the health benefits - those are the icing on the cake, for me. :lachen:

[ThickHair]

I want to wear cuter clothes. I will admit I do find cute plus sized clothes since I am a DIVA. But they are very expensive. I look through the racks at Macy's and see cute things on sale for next to nothing, but I can't wear a size 8 nor 10.

[TrustMeLove]

Ladies...WE ARE ON THE SAME PAGE.

Why is it that the skinny people clothes are sooo cheap? I go through the racks and 6 and 8's galore. Quality clothes for cheapo prices. If a big girl wanted to go to Ashley Steward and buy one of those flowly to the ground dresses she has to spend $50 for something cheaply made at that, but at the local Nordstroms it's $20 on the clearanc rack.

That's some mess. Plus packing for trips suck too. Your clothes take up twice as much space as a smaller person and so you have to pack less items. All good reasons to get fit.

[Nonie]

To be able to wear clothes I can no longer fit into and to make those I force myself into look as nice as they're supposed to look.

To prove to a friend who is always "dieting" always "counting calories" always "watching what she eats" to the point of ruining your appetite and she's size zero(!) that eating right and working out can keep you full enough not to binge and fit enough that your metabolism stays high enough so that you don't have to stress about living. She's so obsessed with image that she could be a model. She also looks like she feels sorry for me coz I don't follow suit when she recommends a diet to me. :giggle:

[My-Foolish-Heart]

I agree with all these reasons. I just want to be able to walk into any clothing store and not have to worry about whether or not they will have my size and know that I will be able to find SOMETHING. I do also want to make some people in my life jealous...like I feel like I have a way better personality and a cuter face than some of the people I know, but for some reason, a guy will always talk to them first and overlook me. I feel like if I lose weight, the tables will definitely be turned! lol

[HAIRapy]

I wanna be able to tie my shoe without having to hold my breath.
I wanna be able to cross my legs without having to lean to the side.
I wanna be at an amusement park, get in line and not have to be afraid that I may not fit into the seat (that hasn't happened to me, thank God! I would die on the spot if it did :(- it did happen to my friend though and she was at the park with her boyfriend too).
I'm sick of making a B-line to the back of the store to the plus-sized section like I'm on time out or something.
I have more reasons, but I'll just let this last one be the last on the list: I'm starting to kinda agree with that quality-guy and fat girl crap. Yeah, I called it crap.:look:

[TrustMeLove]

I thankfully have excellent friends. Very supportive of all my goals. I've actually gotten some of them to take their level of fitness to new places. They are all actually thin, but now thanks to me some are doing P90X and others are more committed to staying a certain size and not allowing their weigh to yo-yo 10-20lbs dependings on the season.

So it's mostly for me...and how I want to now present myself to the world.

[kayex]

Because I have always had a 41 inch butt/hip measurement but no one called me fat when my waist was 22 inches.

If I must be objectified, I would rather be looked at as an object of amazement than just another girl with a ghetto booty.

Because clothing is cut to flatter a trimmer form.

Because I am getting older and I refuse to be in an old looking body.

Because I like walking past people and knowing they are all looking but most definitely with admiration.

Because I am a nudist and I like to look in the mirror.

[TrustMeLove]

I wanna be able to tie my shoe without having to hold my breath.
I wanna be able to cross my legs without having to lean to the side.
I wanna be at an amusement park, get in line and not have to be afraid that I may not fit into the seat.
I'm sick of making a B-line to the back of the store to the plus-sized section like I'm on time out or something.I have more reasons, but I'll just let this last one be the last on the list: I'm starting to kinda agree with that quality-guy and fat girl crap. Yeah, I called it crap.:look:

The black is the truth. Like I can't go to certain stores. Always have to make sure there is a Kohl's an Ashley Stewart..Old Navy..something with some 14/16's that fit hips.

The red. Ok...so I never voiced this, but I think I believe it too. Like I want to attract a certain type of man. And no he isn't shallow and all about looks. But, why would he want to hook up with someone who doesn't look like they care about their health and will have a ton of health problems in the future. SERIOUSLY. I'm not going to hook up with an overweight guy. :nono: Just being honest. Unless, it was super directed by the Lord.

I see how weight has negative effects on ones health and the things they can do now. Why connect myself to someone like that for life? And let's now turn the tables why would a man want to connect himself to me for life? And I look like I'm not concerned with my health and well being.

Just saying. I know that's not the case for everyone. But, for what I'm looking for I know the guy should think like that..we have to take care of our temples.

[ChikaChika]

Because I like to travel and I'm so scared every time I get on a plane. I have nightmares that my *** won't fit in the seat. I have to use a seat belt extender once and that was bad enough. One time I was on a plane waiting to take off and it got delayed because there was a very large 500lb+ woman who simply could not fit in the seat, they even tried to upgrade her to the first class seats and she couldn't fit in that either. I felt so bad when she had to get off.

[Determined22]

I love fashion and I really want to be able to wear all the little clothes that I love that I can't fit right now.

[kbragg]

I want haters:grin: I want women to look at me with my three kids and say "look at her, she think she cute, prolly had surgery or somethin":lachen:

I want men other than my hubby to find me sexy to the point that I turn heads and it makes hubby jealous like when we first started dating:grin: Menn keep other men on their toes:grin:

I want to booty clap:look:

I don't want to look like a "mom." I want people who meet me to be shocked I have children.:grin:

I want to wear clothes that look inappropriate for my age:lachen:

I want this dang flap of tummy gone!:wallbash: (It's almost gone!:grin:)

Ok, now that I've shown myself to be extremely vain and shallow...:look: It's health first:look:

[Lucie]

I want to look good when I BC because I won't have my hair to hide behind anymore.

[TrustMeLove]

I want haters:grin: I want women to look at me with my three kids and say "look at her, she think she cute, prolly had surgery or somethin":lachen:

I want men other than my hubby to find me sexy to the point that I turn heads and it makes hubby jealous like when we first started dating:grin: Menn keep other men on their toes:grin:

I want to booty clap:look:

I don't want to look like a "mom." I want people who meet me to be shocked I have children.:grin:

I want to wear clothes that look inappropriate for my age:lachen:

I want this dang flap of tummy gone!:wallbash: (It's almost gone!:grin:)

Ok, now that I've shown myself to be extremely vain and shallow...:look: It's health first:look:

:lachen: You let it all out. But, I feel ya...on many on the points. EXCEPT the haters. I see how haters cause so much drama in my skinny friends lives..I'll pass.

I can't believe you have kids. Especially, when I see the oldest on your youtube vides..I'm like WOW. Unbelieveable.

[kbragg]

:lachen: You let it all out. But, I feel ya...on many on the points. EXCEPT the haters. I see how haters cause so much drama in my skinny friends lives..I'll pass.

I can't believe you have kids. Especially, when I see the oldest on your youtube vides..I'm like WOW. Unbelieveable.

:bighug:I love you!:grin:

[ROBOTxcore]

I want ABS and ***.

I want to make my SO go crazy with desire! :grin:


I would also like to booty clap. :look: How's that coming for you, Kbragg?

[prettyfaceANB]

Because black men prefer curvier bodies and I plan to marry a black man.

Because I want a nice, round butt so FH will enjoy!

Because I want a more tampered waist (which is retarded because my waist is already small).

Because I want to be 30 and HOT!

Because I want a stronger, healthier body (not unpopular but definitely a reason).

[BrownEyez22]

I wanna wear some cute shorts at the club/mall:look:

[Son26]

I decided to lose 60 pounds because:

I look prettier when I'm smaller.

I got tired of people saying "You put on a lot of weight!" or "You used to be so slim!"

I realized that I looked better when I was a size 4/6 . . . I went through my albums and saw that I look older when I'm heavy and 10 years younger when I'm slim. I'm 33 but people told me recently that I look 24/25.

To see the look on my ex's face . . . he now wants us to get back together.

To see the look on a certain person's face who I heard snickering quietly behind me when she saw how much weight I'd gained. It was wonderful. . . .

To get more attention from guys (I want a husband and kids ASAP). It worked.

To look hot in clothes.