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Glib Gurl
2009-04-06, 01:28 PM
From YouLookFab.com (http://www.youlookfab.com/2009/04/06/forbidden-fashion-for-the-over-30s/). Do you agree?

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Forbidden fashion for the over 30’s (http://www.youlookfab.com/2009/04/06/forbidden-fashion-for-the-over-30s/)

April 6th, 2009
Charla Krupp’s New York Times best seller, “How Not to Look Old (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0446581143?ie=UTF8&tag=youlookfabcom-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0446581143)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=youlookfabcom-20&l=as2&o=1&a=0446581143”, is an insightful and informative read (published in 2008). Formerly the beauty editor of Glamour and senior editor of InStyle magazine, Charla shares her expertise on looking 10 years younger, 10 pounds lighter and 10 times better in fast and effective ways. The information is detailed, tangible, easy to absorb, hands-on and unapologetic. Although I don’t agree with all of Charla’s opinions, this aspect of her book really resonated with me.
The chapters on personal style, fashion and wardrobe planning feature sidebars with succinct checklists that are food for thought. The list that intrigued me the most was “forbidden fashion items for every woman past the age of 30 who wants to look effortlessly (http://www.youlookfab.com/2008/09/26/what-is-effortless-style/) chic and classy“. In other words, she considers these items “too young” for women over the age of 30.
Here is the list along with my 2 cents on the subject. I have highlighted the areas where I differ from Charla.

Ankle bracelets: I generally agree, but some ladies wear an ankle bracelet with their national dress. An ankle bracelet looks perfectly appropriate with an Indian Sari, for example.
Belly necklaces: I see Charla’s point. But you might get away with a belly necklace if you’re in superb shape (or if you’re a belly dancer).
Body piercing: Agreed.
Boy shorts: If this refers to underwear then I am guilty as charged, but I imagine that Charla is talking about what I call “hot pants”, or short shorts.If so, I agree.
Collegiate sweats, T-shirts and caps: I wear adorable collegiate lounging sweats (http://www.youlookfab.com/2008/11/11/junior-sweats-for-grownups/) every day. They don’t leave the house and they fit well. Until I find a more grown-up substitute I’m sticking with these. I’m with Charla on the T’s and caps though.
Colored cowboy boots: I’m not sure about this one. Perhaps the Texans can help me out.
Crocs: Agreed. My age limit for this item is eight.<LI style="COLOR: #c50083">Earmuffs: Looking sweet in earmuffs is achievable when you’re older than 30. I saw this look in NYC earlier this year and wished I also had a pair.
Ear piercing in multiples: Agreed.
Flip flops in the city: Agreed. In fact, I’m much stricter here. I say ban flip flops at any age (http://www.youlookfab.com/2008/07/25/flip-flops-yea-or-nay-for-everyday/) when you’re in the city. It’s beachwear.<LI style="COLOR: #c50083">Go-go boots: Guilty as charged. At 38 I love my go-go boots (http://www.youlookfab.com/2009/03/06/interviewing-with-nbcs-today-show) and feel that I pull them off with style. I hope to wear them for a little while longer. <LI style="COLOR: #c50083">Leg warmers: Tough one. I have seen these work on older women who wore them over jeans and in boots.
Micro mini dresses: Agreed.
Mittens: Agreed.
Nameplate necklaces: Agreed. But I have a friend in her early 30’s who wears one with style. I think it’s because she doesn’t look a day over 25.<LI style="COLOR: #c50083">Newsboy caps: No age limit. I see women in their 50’s sport streamlined versions with style.
Scrunchies: Agreed. My age limit on these is 14. I can hardly believe that my favourite chain store Club Monaco is selling them right now.
Super low riding jeans: Agreed.
Tattoos: This is difficult. If you have a tattoo, you’re stuck with it. Does Charla mean don’t get a tattoo after the age of 30?<LI style="COLOR: #c50083">Tie-dye anything: I can see tie-dye tops working after 30 if you have a bohemian edge to your style.
Tights in neon colours: Agreed.
Toe-rings: As with ankle bracelets, you can sport these when you’re older if they are part of your national dress.
Tube tops as stand-alones: Agreed.
Overall I think that 30 is too low as a cutoff point, even in some of the areas that I agree. After all, 40 is the new 30! Over to you. What are your thoughts on the items on Charla’s list? Do you think she’s left anything out?

Almaz
2009-04-06, 01:35 PM
There are a whole lot of 40 year old women that I see that look SO much better than these hard arse 22 year old walking around with Cellulite, Stretch marks, and C-Section scars where they same crappy mess cause they are young.

Does not matter how old you are If you built like Spongebob Squarepants and your stomach is bigger than your arse leave the tight legging boy shorts and low riders alone. Cause you look silly and nasty

JFemme
2009-04-06, 01:50 PM
I enjoyed Charla's book.:yep: No comment on that list..

Ok, a wee one:giggle:

Women have so many things to concern themselves with...:nono:

Certainly, there are fashions taboos that one should stay mindful of, but I dont think you can mandate personal choice/style...

JustKiya
2009-04-06, 01:51 PM
:rolleyes:

The most important part of looking 'effortlessly chic' at any age is honestly assessing what looks good on YOU. My 21 y/o self wouldn't wear a belly chain, but I suspect my 40 y/o self could rock that funky joint.
Following a list won't make you chic - just a follower. :look:

ryanshope
2009-04-06, 03:50 PM
Most of the faux pas on that list are things that I wouldn't have done at any age past 13---especially the scrunchies and the neon leggings..lol. My main faux pas and this was started at 21 is "shorts"...I am a capris strictly type chic now. I don' have a "dimple" butt by my hind is too "provocative" now as is...

Crackers Phinn
2009-04-06, 03:53 PM
I agree with everything except Ankle bracelets and mittens. I don't even own a pair of mittens, but if a ***** ever gets cold enough and that's all I can find...guess what.

Caramela
2009-04-06, 03:57 PM
I agree with the list. I am happy that bikini's aren't on the list. I will wear one until I don't have the body to wear one anymore (of course, right now in my pregnant state I'm not going to wear one, but next summer you won't be able to say much to me! :nono: :giggle: )

MD_Lady
2009-04-06, 04:06 PM
I agree that 30 is too low of a cutoff point and think that many of these items could be pulled off by the right person in the right setting. That being said:

-I'm against people of every age and both genders wearing crocks. Darn you Mario Batali. :fistshake:

- When it comes to being cold, you do what you gotta do to stay warm so earmuffs and mittens get a pass. :yep:

- I think we're a little too far out of the 80s for anyone to wear legwarmers for aesthetic reasons. :perplexed

AtlantaJJ
2009-04-06, 04:06 PM
I disagree with the toe ring & anklet...I like them when tastefully done...

KEWLKAT103
2009-04-06, 04:14 PM
This list is ridiculous.
What you wear is relative.
What looks good on some, would be death for others.

dlewis
2009-04-06, 04:22 PM
I bought some hotpants out of the teens section this weekend.:lachen::lachen: I can't wait to wear them, in my yard of course and maybe to a baseball game:look:.
I agree about the croc, I have some though.:nono:
I wear Flip flops too.
I had on tube tops this weekend, with my brastrap showing too. Go dlewis go dlewis :yay:

dlewis
2009-04-06, 04:23 PM
I agree that 30 is too low of a cutoff point and think that many of these items could be pulled off by the right person in the right setting. That being said:

-I'm against people of every age and both genders wearing crocks. Darn you Mario Batali. :fistshake:

- When it comes to being cold, you do what you gotta do to stay warm so earmuffs and mittens get a pass. :yep:

- I think we're a little too far out of the 80s for anyone to wear legwarmers for aesthetic reasons. :perplexed

:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen: I wear long socks to match my 80's The Firm Video women :lachen::lachen: My husband and kids think its to funny.

CHECKMATE!
2009-04-06, 04:26 PM
Baby phat!

JFemme
2009-04-06, 04:39 PM
I had on tube tops this weekend, with my brastrap showing too. Go dlewis go dlewis :yay:

:lachen::bdance::lachen:

dlewis
2009-04-06, 04:46 PM
:lachen::bdance::lachen:

When Dh made it home he said WTF do you have on, you done lost weight and turned into a tramp:perplexed......but I like it, gimme some suga:blush::lachen:.

JFemme
2009-04-06, 04:47 PM
When Dh made it home he said WTF do you have on, you done lost weight and turned into a tramp:perplexed......but I like it, gimme some suga:blush::lachen:.

Ahhhhh, Yes:yep:

:lachen:

KEWLKAT103
2009-04-06, 05:24 PM
Baby phat!

Nobody should wear baby phat :lachen:

JFemme
2009-04-06, 05:28 PM
I'm not giving up my Nike Velour pants for NObody!!:swordfigh

http://content.nordstrom.com/ImageGallery/store/product/MediumLarge/1/_5692101.jpg

(I know they are on somebody's list somewhere):rolleyes::lachen:

dlewis
2009-04-06, 09:31 PM
I'm not giving up my Nike Velour pants for NObody!!:swordfigh

http://content.nordstrom.com/ImageGallery/store/product/MediumLarge/1/_5692101.jpg

(I know they are on somebody's list somewhere):rolleyes::lachen:

I don't have any but I think they look nice.:yep:

Almaz
2009-04-06, 10:19 PM
http://media.photobucket.com/image/ghetto%20outfits/Meramoto/Ghetto/HotGhettoMess.jpg

Don't have a problem with the Jewelry and toe rings but I do have a problem with this