View Full Version : How's the Eye Candy at Your Gym?
Raspberry
2009-02-10, 07:51 PM
Do hot men at the gym motivate you? Do you feel self-conscious around them or does the rush from working out give you more confidence?
I go to the Y and when I go early in the morning I'm surrounded by freakishly fit old white men who are courteous or just ignore me. In the evenings after work and on Saturdays there's a ton of black men (hot ones galore :lick:) around playing ball, lifting weights, etc. A good amount of them acknowledge me - make eye contact, speak, etc. They always seem glad when I smile or speak first... That makes me feel good - though I think that has a lot to do with the fact that there's not a lot of black women there at any one time and a lot of the women in general stick to the women only section. Ah well, more for me to look at :drunk:. A lot of the non-black men are lookin good too... It's a nice boost that some of the men seem to like my body, since I'm often too hard on myself because of the extra lbs I've let myself gain.
They gym is the place I have the highest comfortable level speaking to people I don't know (men and women), something about all that sweatin' breaks the ice I think.
How's the menfolk at your gym?
There's a ton of fine Black bros at my gym!! I steer clear of them. This is one of the places I go to in which I turn into a total shy person. They are ripped and seem to be in competition with each other. There's always a few of them in there infact I bet that most of the workers are fine black men.
Raspberry
2009-02-10, 09:11 PM
Girl, don't be so shy, I think black men like to see a sista at the gym, it's a turn-on... men are always in competition with each other, they can't help themselves lol
Duchesse
2009-02-11, 11:38 AM
There are some cuties in the gym along with the ooglies. I get tunnel vision though and purposely avoid all eye contact. There's this Latin dude who i think is so cute, and the other day he got on the treadmill right next to mine when there were several other free ones. What did I do? Continue staring at my reflection in the Tv screen, I'm such a punk.
ChikaChika
2009-02-11, 12:04 PM
There is some hotness at my gym but to be honest when I'm all sweaty in gym clothes I feel anything but hot so I just leave them to it. I nearly fell off the treadmill the otherday when David Beckhams older finer brother took off his top though, the shaaaame!
FlowerHair
2009-02-11, 12:18 PM
There are a few hot guys :grin:
I don't do anything but look...
I'm there to work hard though, so I usually don't have energy to people watch LOL
Lady Esquire
2009-02-11, 12:22 PM
I've seen one. In general: one half look like they're scouting on the DL, and the others looked geeked up on roids. Not sexy.
kbragg
2009-02-11, 01:27 PM
The eye candy at my gym is fiooooone!:lick: Of course my gym is a home gym;)
the_sweetest_berry
2009-02-11, 07:48 PM
Eye candy at my gym? I wish.:ohwell:
winnettag
2009-02-11, 11:52 PM
My gym...eye candy? Hahahaha.
They think they are....I disagree.
I think it would be nice to have though....I think it would motivate me.
Lucie
2009-02-11, 11:55 PM
The men at my gym are HOT!!!!!!! :lick::lick::lick:
I hate to make eye contact with any of them and not because I am married. More because of the fact that I go first thing in the morning and haven't brushed my teeth or put deodorant on. I sleep with my gym clothes on sometimes, so you know I roll out of bed and into the gym. :lachen:
SimpleBrooklyn
2009-02-12, 10:46 AM
Yeah, um, I go to a female gym...Lucille Roberts! LOL
No eye candy, but some (emphasis on SOME) cute figures that motivate me to step my game up:)
BALLYS!!!
And UH!!! Yes, there is eye candy..... :grin: I find I go to that particular gym because of that, and it is more convenient.
One is buff as all get out :lick:
Lawd let me stop... it is fun to be at the gym though, especially when I am upstairs on the weight machines....all that manliness lifting weights....
Ok I am out!
:strong::cowgirl:
Raspberry
2009-02-12, 11:45 PM
I've seen one. In general: one half look like they're scouting on the DL, and the others looked geeked up on roids. Not sexy.
:lachen: That's a shame.. the Y I go to is very laid back and homey looking, so the people who want to go overboard dressin and flexin for each other tend to go elsewhere.
There is some hotness at my gym but to be honest when I'm all sweaty in gym clothes I feel anything but hot so I just leave them to it.
I know what you mean, I used to wear baggy t-shirts and all but like anything else in life I realized I enjoyed working out more when I looked kinda cute doing it. I went and racked up on cheap yoga pants and tanks/tees and I feel more confident and at home at the gym now.
There are some cuties in the gym along with the ooglies. I get tunnel vision though and purposely avoid all eye contact. There's this Latin dude who i think is so cute, and the other day he got on the treadmill right next to mine when there were several other free ones. What did I do? Continue staring at my reflection in the Tv screen, I'm such a punk.
Girl stop ... aint nothin wrong with a smile and a hello, don't put so much thought into it, he's just a man and acknowledgement makes them feel good... you know 10 white girls done cheesed all in his face by that point (lemme stop :lachen:). I figure the gym is one of the few places people don't outright reject each other because you'll probably see that person again; so it's a great place to practice your confidence game with men :drunk:
browny1978
2009-02-13, 03:25 AM
I wish there were eye candy! I'm at the Y during the day with the seniors! Good-looking men would be such motivation. I'd probably be more consistent, instead of falling off after working out good for a whole week! :wallbash:
kandyland
2009-02-13, 07:30 AM
Yeah, on and off. The regulars are ok. Once in a while I'll see some new hot meat but for the most part...same ol same ol.
Iansan
2009-02-13, 08:32 AM
More like eye boogers, when I move I will definitely join a new gym...
Gigi-07
2009-02-21, 10:33 PM
DFL @ "eye boogers". omg lol. The ones at a gym I went to were HAWT, especially the b-ball players *fans self*. One even winked and flirted with me at the smoothie ship next door. :wink2:Made me actually want to continue working out. lol. Next year, I will be hitting the university gym every morning! lol.
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