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SouthernTease
2008-10-07, 08:48 PM
I am not even close to thinking about having kids, but I've always wanted to have twins. In doing my research, I thought I'd share these things with you and maybe those who have had twins can chime in.


About 3% of babies born in the United States are twins or higher-order multiple births (such as triplets).

Twin births increasing by 400% in the last twenty years

African American women are known to have more twin pregnancies than any other race.





1. Have a History

Do twins run in your family? If you have a mother, brother, sister, uncle or long lost cousin with multiples, you may wonder if you'll have them too. Sometimes twinning is hereditary, it's true. However, only fraternal (dizygotic twins are influenced by heredity, and then only in some cases. If your mother or maternal grandmother was or had fraternal twins, you might have inherited a gene for hyperovulation, increasing your chances of conceiving twins also.


2. Grow or Gain Weight

A recent study published by the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology correlates the rise in multiple birth rates with rising rates of obesity. Research found that mothers with a BMI (Body Mass Index) of 30 or higer were significantly more likely to have twins. Again, this statistic only holds true for fraternal (dizygotic) twins. The research also showed that women of above-average height were also more likely to have multiples.


3. Grow Up: Wait Until You're Older
Older mothers are more likely to conceive twins than their younger counterparts. It's thought that the body accelerates ovulation as the biological clock starts ticking faster. Seventeen percent of mothers over age 45 have multiples. Wait five more years and the odds rise to one in nine! However, the risks also increase; older mothers have a higher rate of miscarriage and are more likely to experience problems such as gestational diabetes during their pregnancy; in addition, their babies are at higher risk for chromosomal abnormalities.

4. Have More Twins
Once you have had a multiple pregnancy, you are significantly more likely to conceive -- and deliver -- twins again! Some estimates suggest that mothers of twins are four times more likely to have twins again than a woman who has never been pregnant, or who only had a singleton.

5. Diet: Yams & Dairy
No one is quite sure why, but the Yoruba tribe in West Africa has the highest rate of twinning in the world. A study concluded that the mother's diet was the cause, being high in cassava, a type of yam or sweet potato. The peelings of this vegetable are thought to contain a chemical that causes hyperovulation. In addition, a 2006 study found that women who consume dairy are five times as likely to have twins.


6. Seek Fertility Assistance
Reproductive technology has dramatically increased the multiple birth rate. Drugs that stimualate ovulation can lead to a multiple pregnancy, but multiples can also result from invitro fertilization. It's not just that multiple embryos are implanted in the mother, but there is also an unexplained increase in the number of monozygotic twins among IVF patients. No ethical doctor would provide treatment if it wasn't warranted, so fertility assistance should only be sought out when necessary.

7. Have A Big Family
The more kids you have, the more likely you are to conceive twins in a subsequent pregnancy. No one knows the magic limit that triggers a multiple pregnancy, so you'll just have to keep trying until it happens.

8. Conceive While Breastfeeding
Most people think that you can't get pregnant while breastfeeding, that the process of lactating keeps a woman from ovulating. However, plenty of mothers of twins can disprove that theory. Some research has supported the theory that the chance of twins or multiples is increased if a woman conceives while breastfeeding.


9. Get Pregnant On the Pill
Birth control pills are usually thought to be 99.9 percent effective at preventing pregnancy. However, that .01 percent often results in a double whammy -- multiples. Sometimes pregnancy occurs when the pill isn't taken consistently; in other cases, the hormonal mix of a particular drug type simply doesn't provide enough coverage to completely prevent ovulation. In either case, playing around with hormones can lead to hyperovulation, increasing the chances of multiples.


10. Just Get Lucky!
Many parents of multiples don't meet any of the classic criteria, yet find themselves doubly blessed. Monozygotic twins are particularly mysterious; no one is exactly certain what causes an egg to split after conception, producing identical twins. The bottom line is that there truly isn't a whole lot an individual can do to influence their chances of having twins; sometimes you just get lucky!

SouthernTease
2008-10-07, 08:49 PM
So let's see what I have.


Family History
African-American
Will wait until I am older (in my 30s)
I can try while on the pill to get pregant
Eat more yams! I like yams
Eat more dairy... I'm down with dairy

BobbieDoll
2008-10-07, 08:51 PM
These are all of the things I will NOT be doing! I can't imagine having more than one baby at a time but God bless those that do or want to.

SouthernTease
2008-10-07, 08:59 PM
I want to have two...
I'm going to wait until I'm older
and can handle it...
I know it's super risky to get pregnant
over 35... so I want to do it once
and call it a day.

BabyImaStarr
2008-10-07, 09:23 PM
I want twins... my mom is a twin and my SO is a twin. I wonder if that will work in my favor? :scratchch I can get down with yams too

N.P.R. Addict
2008-10-07, 10:29 PM
I want to have two...
I'm going to wait until I'm older
and can handle it...
I know it's super risky to get pregnant
over 35... so I want to do it once
and call it a day.


Not exactly super risky. It is changing these days with more and more women waiting to start having children.

LadyPaniolo
2008-10-07, 10:40 PM
I want twins, too! I've read that article before. But I've also read that you have to do something to the yam (dunno what exactly) to neutralize the natural CYANIDE in the skin. :perplexed

locabouthair
2008-10-08, 12:00 AM
Damn I think I might have twins someday :ohwell:

I know for a fact I wont be having kids in my 20's. Plus I have family history and I love some sweet potatoes :look:

locabouthair
2008-10-08, 12:01 AM
I want twins, too! I've read that article before. But I've also read that you have to do something to the yam (dunno what exactly) to neutralize the natural CYANIDE in the skin. :perplexed

Can you explain this? I dont know what this means. I'm guessing its a bad thing.

Blessed_Angel
2008-10-08, 07:12 PM
My aunt is a twin; and I have twin brothers. I would love to have twins if I had the help. Since I don't...I hope not to have twins. :nono:

calihair 2007
2008-10-08, 07:53 PM
Be careful what you wish for!!!

I have twin boys (4 years old). Although they are a blessing and very CUTE, it is extremely challenging. Twins do run heavenly in my family. 7 sets on my Mom's side and my father was the only twin on his side. My husband had no twins in his family until our boys were born.

I do believe most of the statistics that Southern Tease listed. I'm starting to see more and more twins to where it's becoming just as probable to have twins as it is singletons.

In any event they are special but a lot of work. I have 4 kids total and personally I can tell you if I would of had my twins first I WOULD NOT HAVE HAD ANYMORE :) :nono:

Ivy_Butter
2008-10-08, 09:25 PM
I have a twin sister, my dad has a twin brother, and his dad has a twin sister. I kinda want twins too, but I will be thankful for whatever I get.

Keen
2008-10-08, 10:32 PM
I want triplex or quads! I'm a twin and have other relatives with twins. Keeping my fingers crossed.

FlowerHair
2008-10-09, 04:16 AM
They must have meant 35 instead of 45 under advice number 3. How many women have children at 45-50?

Cinnabuns
2008-10-09, 12:58 PM
Twins run in my family. My sister, who is a member of this board, Sugaplum and I are twins. I have aunts and uncles who are twins. My husband is a twin and his mother gave brith to two sets of twins. I guess my chances of having twins are pretty high, so they tell me. :)

I bet you would make a great mother to twins SouthernTease. Hopefully they won't drive you crazy like me and Sugaplum did not our mom - lol

grnidmonster
2008-10-11, 10:26 PM
I am a twin (my twin died in utero), I have six sets of cousins who are twins and I have 9 yo twin boys. I agree with other post-twins are hard work. My husband and I did 15 bottles and 20 diapers a day. We buy two of everything (I know you say you would make them share one but, at the same age it doesnt really work that way). I was told if I tried to have a daughter I may end up with another set of twins. I love my boys but no thank you on another set. I was 30 when I got pregnant.

Southern Tease, you would be great with twins because you seem to really want them and you have done the research and have an idea of what to expect, unlike me who fell into it and was in shock for 4 weeks when I found out I was having twins. My parents were too. My dad thought I was joking then he thought I was talking about the dog having puppies...crazy.

sky_blu
2008-10-12, 09:36 AM
Twins run in my family on my fathers side. My grandmother had twins and my cousin had twins. Im pretty sure handling two kids at one time can be VERY challenging because just one was challenging enough for me. The only reason I would want to have twins is because my child is already so much older, if I had another kid I would probably be older so I can just kill two birds with one stone being that I just want 3 kids. :ohwell:

GlamGyrl81
2008-10-12, 10:26 AM
Hmm...interesting. I would like to have twins as well when I get around to having kids-like Southern Tease I would like to wait until I'm around 30+ and twins run pretty deep on my Mom's side(grandparents had two sets of fraternal twins both boy-girl) my mom is a twin, and my uncle(also a twin) has fraternal twin girls....guess I'll be stocking up on the yams when the time comes...

yodie
2008-10-12, 11:53 AM
I am a fraternal twin. It is the most wonderful relationship in my life. The man that I want to marry... well, his parents are both identical twins. I asked God to bless me with fraternal twins. I love the closeness between my brother and I and I'd love to have another set of us (prayerfully they'll be close). I know it's a lot of work, but it can be done.

andrea
2008-10-12, 01:30 PM
I want twins so bad.. 2 for 1.... I my g-ma was a twin and I have an aunt and uncle that are twins.. I think that maybe it.. Dang, that may not be enough...