UNMARRIED,PREGNANT WITH NOWHERE TO TURN.

[pioneerthinker]

I AM A CHRISTIAN IM NOT MARRIED AND I JUST FOUND OUT I AM PREGNANT. IVE BEEN PRACTICING ABSTINENCE FOR THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF I SLIPPED UP AND NOW IM PREGNANT, IM DEPRESSED BECAUSE I FEEL SO ASHAMED I DONT KNOW WHETHER IM EVEN SANCTIFIED ENOUGH TO PRAY I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FEEL SO ALONE. ARE THERE ANY SCRIPTURES I CAN READ TO LIFT MY SPIRIT UP OR ANYTHING I CAN DO IM JUST CONFUSED AND SO LOST.

[Nice & Wavy]

I AM A CHRISTIAN IM NOT MARRIED AND I JUST FOUND OUT I AM PREGNANT. IVE BEEN PRACTICING ABSTINENCE FOR THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF I SLIPPED UP AND NOW IM PREGNANT, IM DEPRESSED BECAUSE I FEEL SO ASHAMED I DONT KNOW WHETHER IM EVEN SANCTIFIED ENOUGH TO PRAY I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FEEL SO ALONE. ARE THERE ANY SCRIPTURES I CAN READ TO LIFT MY SPIRIT UP OR ANYTHING I CAN DO IM JUST CONFUSED AND SO LOST.


I am pm'ing you now.

You are loved.

Blessings!

[Southernbella.]

I AM A CHRISTIAN IM NOT MARRIED AND I JUST FOUND OUT I AM PREGNANT. IVE BEEN PRACTICING ABSTINENCE FOR THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF I SLIPPED UP AND NOW IM PREGNANT, IM DEPRESSED BECAUSE I FEEL SO ASHAMED I DONT KNOW WHETHER IM EVEN SANCTIFIED ENOUGH TO PRAY I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FEEL SO ALONE. ARE THERE ANY SCRIPTURES I CAN READ TO LIFT MY SPIRIT UP OR ANYTHING I CAN DO IM JUST CONFUSED AND SO LOST.

You can pray anytime you need to! God doesn't care where you are in your life. If you need Him, call Him.:yep:

[envybeauty]

How old are you? Teenager or late 30s? What about the father?

Google. Research groups for your age group and if churches in your area have support groups.

Look into getting prenatal care. Pregnant women can get medicare I believe. Go to yoru local health and human services office to look into getting prenatal care at no cost to you.

Confide in someone at church. A minister or counselor. You need a prayer partner.

Don't give up on your faith. When all else fails, that is the only thing you will have left!

PM me with any questions.

[Shimmie]

I AM A CHRISTIAN IM NOT MARRIED AND I JUST FOUND OUT I AM PREGNANT. IVE BEEN PRACTICING ABSTINENCE FOR THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF I SLIPPED UP AND NOW IM PREGNANT, IM DEPRESSED BECAUSE I FEEL SO ASHAMED I DONT KNOW WHETHER IM EVEN SANCTIFIED ENOUGH TO PRAY I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FEEL SO ALONE. ARE THERE ANY SCRIPTURES I CAN READ TO LIFT MY SPIRIT UP OR ANYTHING I CAN DO IM JUST CONFUSED AND SO LOST.
I will be PMing you as well.

And listen Darlin...this is not the end; only a new and beautiful beginning.

:grouphug: :kiss: :love3:

[LadyPaniolo]

Sorry you are going through this. I think Gd wants us to turn to him the most when we feel unworthy and when we've messed up big time.

Do you have a pregnancy resource center in your area? They can help you with getting medical care, food, maternity clothes, and things for your baby like a crib, stroller, clothes, etc. If you decide to give your baby up for adoption there are lots of couples who would love to raise your little blessing.

Best of luck to you...

[Nice & Wavy]

I will be PMing you as well.

And listen Darlin...this is not the end; only a new and beautiful beginning.

:grouphug: :kiss: :love3:

Amen....:grouphug:!!!

[cocoberry10]

You can always turn to God. I am sending out a prayer for you. God can make all the crooked places straight. Never forget that!

http://www.theinterviewwithgod.com/

[envybeauty]

Don't lose hope OP! Just don't.....

Plenty of women have been in your situation and they have made it work. Women all around you.....you'd be surprised. Women who started off like you and went on to have beautiful families with men they met later on, etc. Think positive!:yep:

[pioneerthinker]

I THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR LOVING AND KIND WORDS THEY MEAN THE WORLD TO ME I REALLY DID NOT KNOW WHAT I WAS GOING TO WITH MYSELF AS PERTAING TO MY FAITH BUT I FEEL UPLIFTED NOW AND I WILL PRAY BLESSING ON EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU. I AM 22 NOW ABOUT TO FINISH SCHOOL, BUT MY BIGGEST CONCERN WAS REALLY PUTTING MY FAMILY TO SHAME BECAUSE I WAS THE YOUNG ONE IN THE CHURCH WAS THERE EVERY BIBLE STUDY, AND NEVER MISSED A DAY OF CHURCH I WAS SUPPOSE TO BE THE ONE ALL OF THE YOUNGER ONES LOOKED UP NOW TO THINK OF MYSELF IN THIS PRIDICAMENT JUST WAS A LITTLE UNSETTLING. BUT I AM TRULY GRATEFUL TO ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGMENT AND I THANK YOU AGAIN.

[Nice & Wavy]

I THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR LOVING AND KIND WORDS THEY MEAN THE WORLD TO ME I REALLY DID NOT KNOW WHAT I WAS GOING TO WITH MYSELF AS PERTAING TO MY FAITH BUT I FEEL UPLIFTED NOW AND I WILL PRAY BLESSING ON EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU. I AM 22 NOW ABOUT TO FINISH SCHOOL, BUT MY BIGGEST CONCERN WAS REALLY PUTTING MY FAMILY TO SHAME BECAUSE I WAS THE YOUNG ONE IN THE CHURCH WAS THERE EVERY BIBLE STUDY, AND NEVER MISSED A DAY OF CHURCH I WAS SUPPOSE TO BE THE ONE ALL OF THE YOUNGER ONES LOOKED UP NOW TO THINK OF MYSELF IN THIS PRIDICAMENT JUST WAS A LITTLE UNSETTLING. BUT I AM TRULY GRATEFUL TO ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGMENT AND I THANK YOU AGAIN.

Here is a prayer for you:

May the Lord bless you and keep you. May He make His face to shine upon you and be gracious to you. May the Lord lift up His Countenance upon you and give you.....PEACE!!!!

You are blessed....woman of God.:yep:

[Shimmie]

I THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR LOVING AND KIND WORDS THEY MEAN THE WORLD TO ME I REALLY DID NOT KNOW WHAT I WAS GOING TO WITH MYSELF AS PERTAING TO MY FAITH BUT I FEEL UPLIFTED NOW AND I WILL PRAY BLESSING ON EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU. I AM 22 NOW ABOUT TO FINISH SCHOOL, BUT MY BIGGEST CONCERN WAS REALLY PUTTING MY FAMILY TO SHAME BECAUSE I WAS THE YOUNG ONE IN THE CHURCH WAS THERE EVERY BIBLE STUDY, AND NEVER MISSED A DAY OF CHURCH I WAS SUPPOSE TO BE THE ONE ALL OF THE YOUNGER ONES LOOKED UP NOW TO THINK OF MYSELF IN THIS PRIDICAMENT JUST WAS A LITTLE UNSETTLING. BUT I AM TRULY GRATEFUL TO ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGMENT AND I THANK YOU AGAIN.
God could not have chosen a better example of Love...you in this situation. For you see, you can be still be the fine example of His Grace and Mercies, which follow us all the days of our lives, no matter what happens.

Move on with the Lord and in the power of His might. Celebrate the love that you and the Lord still share and will only grow more deeply each day from this moment on. Move on with the Lord, sweetheart. His arms are wide open to hold you and enfold you with all of His heart and soul.

You are still His babygirl....:love3: Now, let Him 'fix' this and all to His glory...not man's or what others may think or even say...but to God's glory and none other.

Remain sweet and loving and humble and obedient to the Love of God. Let each step you take be one more step towards Him and not from Him. Let His love for you strengthen you each moment of everyday; even during those times when you feel too weak or unworthy to pray...Move on even stronger with the Lord. For there is no better place to be. And there is no one better than you that God still wants to be with.

Yes...Darlin', God still loves you with all of His heart and you are definitely still His and you always will be. He loves you with an everlasting love. Amen and Amen... :love4:

Oh....and did I tell you how beautiful you are to Him...Still. :yep: You are indeed the most precious and beautiful sight in God's view. :heart2:

[Nice & Wavy]

God could not have chosen a better example of Love...you in this situation. For you see, you can be still be the fine example of His Grace and Mercies, which follow us all the days of our lives, no matter what happens.

Move on with the Lord and in the power of His might. Celebrate the love that you and the Lord still share and will only grow more deeply each day from this moment on. Move on with the Lord, sweetheart. His arms are wide open to hold you and enfold you with all of His heart and soul.

You are still His babygirl....:love3: Now, let Him 'fix' this and all to His glory...not man's or what others may think or even say...but to God's glory and none other.

Remain sweet and loving and humble and obedient to the Love of God. Let each step you take be one more step towards Him and not from Him. Let His love for you strengthen you each moment of everyday; even during those times when you feel too weak or unworthy to pray...Move on even stronger with the Lord. For there is no better place to be. And there is no one better than you that God still wants to be with.

Yes...Darlin', God still loves you with all of His heart and you are definitely still His and you always will be. He loves you with an everlasting love. Amen and Amen... :love4:

Oh....and did I tell you how beautiful you are to Him...Still. :yep: You are indeed the most precious and beautiful sight in God's view. :heart2:

Shimmie...I'm glad you got my back. If there were more like you.......

[Nice & Wavy]

God could not have chosen a better example of Love...you in this situation. For you see, you can be still be the fine example of His Grace and Mercies, which follow us all the days of our lives, no matter what happens.

Move on with the Lord and in the power of His might. Celebrate the love that you and the Lord still share and will only grow more deeply each day from this moment on. Move on with the Lord, sweetheart. His arms are wide open to hold you and enfold you with all of His heart and soul.

You are still His babygirl....:love3: Now, let Him 'fix' this and all to His glory...not man's or what others may think or even say...but to God's glory and none other.

Remain sweet and loving and humble and obedient to the Love of God. Let each step you take be one more step towards Him and not from Him. Let His love for you strengthen you each moment of everyday; even during those times when you feel too weak or unworthy to pray...Move on even stronger with the Lord. For there is no better place to be. And there is no one better than you that God still wants to be with.

Yes...Darlin', God still loves you with all of His heart and you are definitely still His and you always will be. He loves you with an everlasting love. Amen and Amen... :love4:

Oh....and did I tell you how beautiful you are to Him...Still. :yep: You are indeed the most precious and beautiful sight in God's view. :heart2:

Shimmie...I'm glad you got my back. If there were more like you.......

[Nice & Wavy]

So awesome...I had to say it twice!:grin:

[mzcris]

I AM A CHRISTIAN IM NOT MARRIED AND I JUST FOUND OUT I AM PREGNANT. IVE BEEN PRACTICING ABSTINENCE FOR THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF I SLIPPED UP AND NOW IM PREGNANT, IM DEPRESSED BECAUSE I FEEL SO ASHAMED I DONT KNOW WHETHER IM EVEN SANCTIFIED ENOUGH TO PRAY I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FEEL SO ALONE. ARE THERE ANY SCRIPTURES I CAN READ TO LIFT MY SPIRIT UP OR ANYTHING I CAN DO IM JUST CONFUSED AND SO LOST.

First of all my sister you are not alone! God loves you and He will never leave you nor forsake you...Okay you slipped...that baby is still a blessing and God is going to take care the both of you. Hold your head up high; you have repented, God forgives you NOW you must forgive yourself and move on...:yep:. Church folks will talk...BUT SO WHAT...who cares; hold your head up high my sister.

My favorite two scriptures are: Jeremiah 33:3 and Isaiah 65: 24...read them they will encourage you!

[Nice & Wavy]

First of all my sister you are not alone! God loves you and He will never leave you nor forsake you...Okay you slipped...that baby is still a blessing and God is going to take care the both of you. Hold your head up high; you have repented, God forgives you NOW you must forgive yourself and move on...:yep:. Church folks will talk...BUT SO WHAT...who cares; hold your head up high my sister.

My favorite two scriptures are: Jeremiah 33:3 and Isaiah 65: 24...read them they will encourage you!

AMEN....AMEN....!:yep:

[gone_fishing]

I AM A CHRISTIAN IM NOT MARRIED AND I JUST FOUND OUT I AM PREGNANT. IVE BEEN PRACTICING ABSTINENCE FOR THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF I SLIPPED UP AND NOW IM PREGNANT, IM DEPRESSED BECAUSE I FEEL SO ASHAMED I DONT KNOW WHETHER IM EVEN SANCTIFIED ENOUGH TO PRAY I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FEEL SO ALONE. ARE THERE ANY SCRIPTURES I CAN READ TO LIFT MY SPIRIT UP OR ANYTHING I CAN DO IM JUST CONFUSED AND SO LOST.

Oh honey...that is a toughy. You are loved though and God still loves you and wants what's best for you. Your sin is no less forgivable than any other sin. Through faith in Christ, any and all sins can be forgiven (John 3:16; Romans 8:1; Colossians 1:14).

Anyone who has made the mistake of having sex outside of marriage can be forgiven, even if the mistake results in a pregnancy and illegitimate birth. 1 John 1:9 says, “But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from every wrong.” This does not mean that He will erase the consequences of our actions, but we can be restored spiritually by confessing and repenting from our sins. This means turning away from our sins and making the commitment to love and serve Christ.

[dreamer26]

As all the others have posted God still loves you and he's waiting on you to turn to him. Don't run from him but to him and he will in no wise cast you out.

The biggest problem I see for you is "YOU" forgiving yourself. Once you accept that God has already forgiven you, if you've asked him to, then work on forgiving yourself. (sometimes that the hardest part)

We are all here for you and some of the ladies have already PMd you and just know we have all thrown our cyper arms around you and will pray that God's will be done. ((((((((HUGS))))))))

Love ya

[PinkPebbles]

Sweetie- I'm sending you a BIG HUG :grouphug:.


My mother had me out of wedlock and my grandfather was the Deacon of the church....But you know what God still blessed and used me and my mother in so many ways! God is here and don't be afraid to draw near to Him. You are still LOVED...and don't ever forget that!!!!