Long Hair Care Forum

Inadequacy at its finest

I understand what you are going through. All I can say is that you have to be strong and don't let THEM change YOU. If they are looking at you crazy, then laugh a little to yourself, shake your head and keep on going. The ones who are acting crazy are not worth your time. They are letting you know that they are not up to par with you. They are letting you know up front.
You will find some more people/friends who are cool, it will just take more time.

Posted 09-03-2009 at 07:01 AM by shenitab shenitab is offline

	The Big Debate--Wow. [center][B][color=#FF1493]what that person said didn't make any sense at all. and she didn't even know how to explain what she meant so her argument is invalid anyway.[/color][/B][/center]
	Posted 07-28-2009 at 07:33 PM by vainღ♥♡jane

	The Big Debate--Wow. Why don't people like her? I think she and her hair is beautiful. People can be so ignorant...
	Posted 07-28-2009 at 06:42 AM by ♥Lamaravilla♥

	The Big Debate--Wow. Claude Hammercy... JenBenCal... Search the hair forum for Shima... then come back to this blog post.
	Posted 07-28-2009 at 04:17 AM by SmartyPants

The Big Debate--Wow.

I'm 95% natural and 5% relaxed (due to a sliver of hair I used to relax when I had weaves which is now growing out) and I must say Id laugh if anybody tried to call me fake because of that minority percentage.

I wouldn't care if I slapped two boxes of relaxer on my head tomorrow morning, if it grows from my scalp, it's not fake.

On a different note, shimaâ€¦ Something just don't sit right with me about that woman

Posted 07-28-2009 at 04:12 AM by tash85 tash85 is offline

	The Big Debate--Wow. Haha, yeah, some of her other videos are a little...umm lol, but I just took offense at the woman's comment. You're right, just have to ignore the ignorant.
	Posted 07-28-2009 at 02:42 AM by JenBenCal

	The Big Debate--Wow. LHCF is not exempt from this debate. You can't pay folks no mind, especially the self righteous. I can't believe I watched a shima video. blech.
	Posted 07-28-2009 at 02:14 AM by Crackers Phinn

	July Feels Like January Thank you guys SO much for all your wonderful and inspiring comments! This is why I love LHCF--such an uplifting place to be :).
	Posted 07-27-2009 at 08:23 PM by JenBenCal

	July Feels Like January You can do it! How I wish I would have found LHCF while I was still in college! I'm in professional school now, but it's never too late to reinvent yourself.
	Posted 07-27-2009 at 04:47 AM by Solitude

	July Feels Like January I loved reading your blog and you inspired me to get myself a regimen. There's a stealth of information here and the ladies are great. Welcome and I am visualizing you attaining your goals.
	Posted 07-27-2009 at 01:43 AM by Lucie

	July Feels Like January Welcome! Don't worry, you'll be a pro in so many areas in no time (rollersetting, co-washing, etc.). Just learn slowly. You don't have to know everything or try everything either. Just listen to your hair...it will let you know what it likes and what it doesn't like. Good luck!
	Posted 07-26-2009 at 11:01 PM by SW2011

	July Feels Like January That's wodnerful! There is so much to learn here, and I hope you enjoy it here! Girl you'll be BSL in no time. Just don't become a product junkie, stick to quality products that work and HAVE FUN!
	Posted 07-26-2009 at 09:54 PM by SimpleKomplexity

	July Feels Like January Welcome and I wish you the best in reaching your goals!
	Posted 07-26-2009 at 09:03 PM by queenspence

	July Feels Like January Welcome Girl:grin:, Now let the real fun begin. There is other Forums/Threads on here. I like to hang out in the Make-Up Area:lachen:. My new Addiction. (Okay I am lying it is an old Addiction:look:.) Anyways, I am just Babbling. I just wanted to say Welcome.
	Posted 07-26-2009 at 08:51 PM by KarmaKarmaDarling